missed flight…

Missed Flight
See that plane ~ I was supposed to be on it xcept here I am wearing my brand new dress by *B.D.R* that is at Sense Event…Absolutely love the hud with this as it as 16 solids, 4 fades like you see me wearing here along with 10 patterns ♥ and now I have to call my friend to tell her that there are no more available flights today we will have to reschedule our reunion…sadly all because of an idiotic driver was texting didn’t watch and hit a semi when they veered over in front ~ Seriously people please do not text and drive as this driver escaped with his life but she messed up her car and snarled traffic for over an hour…Am sure he will also have a matter of his insurance, a traffic fine that I am positive will cost him some way more than he can imagine all because of the text that in mind was not that important…For me, there should be harsher penalties for accidents involving texting or talking on the phone ~ loss of license, maybe more and if you do not understand the importance tell that to the people that have lost a child, a loved one because either they were texting or someone else was ~ and I did a search this is what I found “that each day 11 teens are killed because of texting…not counting other drivers who are also killed by teens texting” the numbers are staggering ~ this is so unacceptable for me and others ~ not sure what it will take to get people in the mindset it is one simple text but am pleading with each of you to act responsible NO TEXTING while driving…

This was shot at Backdrop City using one of Pseudo Airport Scenes and Foxcity‘s Selfie Pose…

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
*B.D.R.* Sweet Whatever Dress Maitreya Lara
::SG:: Emma Maitreya
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
Sintiklia Hair Eliza
IKON Triumph Eyes- Evening
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Chop Zuey Willow Love-Womens Wedding Band

am I…

Am I

Standing here under this street light wearing Legendaire’s newest outfit “Dayla” I was worried if speaking out regarding bad manners, rudeness, and calling out those that act  so entitled when it comes to free stuff ~ still bothers me how some have so little respect for store owners/designers when they are being gracious in providing gifts.  Is it so wrong for today’s society to speak up and call out those ungrateful ones?  Should we all remain silent not saying a word ~ is that what SL has become a community that conducts themselves in group chats like sharks on a feeding frenzy with the mentality of “you better make sure I get that gift or else” and dare anyone to speak up because they will belittle or humiliate you to make you out like “how dare you”…

Am Ia
wearing Dayla by Legendaire

Dayla is a very sexy outfit that Legendaire created ~ coming with huds for the skirt, top that will keep this looking fresh ~ what  I noticed about the skirt is the detailing on the top and bottom hem giving it a very finished look ♥  Dayla is now at the Sense Event with some other goodies that Legendaire has created ~ If you have not noticed my gorgeous skin as it is becoming a favorite and it is a group gift from 7 Deadly s[K]ins Mellia in Pineapple ~ all the rides will be below ♥♥ so last question am I in trouble?

“Don’t go around saying the world owes you a living.

The world owes you nothing.

It was here first.”

Mark Twain

Credits and kudos to some very special people ~ to my bestie Dena Teardrop the one that truly puts up with my crankiness and listens to me vent ~ to hubby Sten who keeps me grounded and to all the readers that am learning that follow and read my blog I so thank each of you ♥♥ Shot at Backdrop City using the prop/poses Hooker Streetlamp by [Slutland] ~ Rides to 7 Deadly s[K]ins, Earthstones, Sense Event, Legendaire, Moon Hair, and Sintiklia

7 Deadly s[K]ins Mellia Pineapple *GG
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
Sintiklia Bangs
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
EarthStones Perfect Fit Necklace –
IKON Spectral Eyes- Passion
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Moon. Hair. // Violet
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape ~ Mine


Daisy off leash 

Ok ok I am sort of breaking a rule by not having Daisy on a leash but it is just this one time and when another resident points that out to me I will just explain “oh I did not know and it won’t happen again”… Sound familiar?  It should as I see it happening in groups these days ~ they know the rules yet when pointed out they just respond “oh I didn’t know”, which would give them the benefit with the exception they do it constantly in specific groups ~ am not certain the reasons behind this except to get people to look at their flickr pics for views and likes or they just like calling attention to themselves with pics of selfies…Again am not speaking of the spammers who post in every single group getting you to click on those fake marketplace links these we absolutely know not to click on – am speaking strictly the groups either pose groups or other type of groups that do allow you to post a link that is either using the store items ex *backdrops, props, etc. just to show what you could do and to show off your talents as a photographer.  As I love seeing how different people will use a backdrop or a pose and what they come up with.  There is so much talent in SL it is amazing.  Then you have those taken advantage of the group with links that have nothing to do with that store or group and the moderators cannot be watching 24/7 and why should they we are adults and out of respect for the owners of a Sim, or a store it should be a reasonable request not to take advantage of their kindness in the group.  Yet am seeing more and more doing it and when asked they just mumble some reply like how dare you and twist it to make you feel guilty.  And I am not by any means one that has never broken a rule, as I have gotten a warning about leaving items on a sim, or posted in the wrong group and totally feel embarrassed and will go out of my way to make amends and apologize.  Each group does have chat rules so it does not get out of hand ~ when that happens or when the decision is made just to ban chat until people can understand why the rules are in place~ooh the elevator finally reached our floor so I will leave you till next time just take a moment and remember a little kindness to others goes a long way ♥♥

Props used
. Swirl Poses. – Daisy
[FISL] Travel luggage – White
Foxcity Lean pose series
Pseudo- From Up Here Elevator scene Backdrop ~ shot at Backdrop City

7 deadly s{K}ins Lindy/Pineapple
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
!!smesh ~ Jean Bustier Maitreya
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
#EMPIRE – Columbine – Maitreya *GROUP GIFT*
*barberyumyum*bangs (I)
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Starfall
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Moon. Hair. // Sour
[hh] Jayleen Ripped Denim Skirt MAITREYA
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ears
*YS&YS Illy catya shape tweaked


why ask me

Hands in the air am like “why ask me” as most times I am clueless to SL drama am not into gossip or actually care but there is a site that I shall not name seems to honestly get off on just that all the gossip and all the drama ~ yes I have perused it a couple of times and woah talk about mean people yikes some do not hold back with the venomous comments ~ as with everything going on in RL especially after going for a wellness check that had me a little well looks like I will be adjusting my lifestyle anyway am not saying that everyone has to be Mary Sunshine 24/7 since that is a tad unrealistic but to be kinder and helpful ~ since today is Sunday its comfort clothes like this outfit from AnaSTyleHip Hop Dance” ~ will be available tomorrow at Designer Showcase ~ looks really comfy and comes as you see ~ AND my fave pose maker Kay of Image Essentials will also has new stuff for Designer Showcase with a series of the 7 Deadly Sins ~ love it and made me kind of wonder …

Should I…

With a change in my lifestyle am just debating should I take a bite of this super yummy cupcake or give it away ~ now if it was a bar of chocolate there would be no debating ~ nope and am not one to go out of my way to munch down on cupcakes, cakes and other dessert items but am having to make some adjustments like portions ~ and yes to my hubby that told me it is about time I start taking care of me since he wants me around for long time ~ this is such a cute outfit that I will be making sure to add it to my faves ~ when you do go to Designer Showcase make sure you take a stroll around and try the latest poses from Image Essentials as they reflect each of those sins ~ wrath, envy, pride, gluttony, greed, lust and sloth ~ should have fun with each of them ~ Ride anyone? Here is the ONE to Designer Showcase, ONE to AnaSTyle and to Image Essentials ~ enjoy ♥

Designer Showcase1

7 Deadly S{K}ins ~ Valentyna
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst “Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
AnaSTyle – HIP HOP DANCE – Sport bra
AnaSTyle – HIP HOP DANCE – Sweatpants
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.0
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Starfall
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Tableau Vivant \\ Caprice (messy) – Blonds
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ears
~Misha J.~ Belly Ring Heart
*YS&YS Illy catya shape tweaked

shot at Backdrop City using Pseudo- Frigid Graffiti Backdrop along with Wrath & Gluttony from Image Essentials newest poses and the cupcake from What Next 


Laundry day

With all the clothes in my closet guess there comes a time when you need to clean some of your favorites ~ this is not one of my favorite things to do especially in RL ~ seriously not sure if it is just the whole process or having to fold and put away and if I was rich, which is probably never gonna happen I would have someone just to come in and do my laundry ~ now you might call me pampered or spoiled but until I left home my Mom would do all mine for me ~ that was one of the things looking back on those memories how truly great a Mom she was ~ never thought about what she really did but she truly had a very hard job raising 3 children and a husband who at times was very old school ~ dinner at a specific time mostly meat, potatoes and a veggie and we said grace, elbows off the table and my Mom barely having time to sit down and eat as most time she ate at the sink or the kitchen counter ~ pausing to reflect as I can say it has been over 18 years now and there are times that I miss her so much it hurts ♥ funny we were both very strong females so you can only imagine some of our battles ~ anyway nuff of my rambling and my outfit is a little bit of this and that from inside my closet but need to give you a closeup of my face so you can see some of the Powder Pack goodies from this month.

Skin and Makeup from Powder Pack/February

If you are not aware of Powder Pack it is a subscription box that every other month will feature items strictly for Catwa ~ the other months feature Lelutika ~ Strawberry Singh does a nice YouTube video unpacking and showing you all the items ~ here is her link for this month as I like listening to her and watching her unpack the items ~ the box has a total of 12 designers that create something exclusive for Catwa owners ~ it is a nice way to be introduced to skins that you might not ever know or try ~ most of the items are fatpack another plus…Cost wise might tend to be a tad pricey except now it is coming every other month so you have plenty of time to save your Lindens ~ here is the link to Powder Pack so you can possibly reserve or buy a box…welp laundry needs to be put in the dryer so till next time be good to yourself and kind to others ♥♥

Credits go to all the designers of this month’s Powder Pack ~ shot at Backdrop City using Pseudo Backdrop/Laundrymat and Pose by R.icielli ~ Wall pose #2

Izzie’s Shimmer Eyeshadow & Lipsticks PP/Feb
AG Gabbie Skin PP/Feb
Mudskin Eat my Lips PP/Feb
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst “Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.0
CCD – Nose Piercing
Decoy – Marissa Sweater: (Maitreya)
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Starfall
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
[hh] Adrena Lace Up Boots
[hh] Adrena Necklace BLACK
[hh] Adrena Shorts MAITREYA
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ear
*YS&YS* Illy catya shape tweaked

Forgot my…

enjoying the sun 

Oh someone reminded me just today that I had a rez day recently am like OMG I forgot all about it and guess so did anyone else ~ not sure to be happy or sad about that fact maybe a little disappointed ~but its no biggie after being in here for over 9 years as I have been in here since 2008 that really is a long long time ~ just went and pulled up my retired ones profile am like woah look at me *giggling cuz back then I just thought that I was so hawt LOL but then again so did everyone else too ~ all the changes from then to now is amazing ~ SL truly has come a long way from when I first logged in ~ anyway nuff about the good ole days and this cute dress that was cleaning out my inventory and came upon it was if am not mistaken a 25 L special can you believe it ~ It is from “On a Lark and came with a hud ~ excellent detail with the lacing and fabric plus fits perfectly on my Maitreya bod ~ dug out another pair of shoes that are practically new since have not worn them from Empire that also came with a hud and those are over a year old ~ woah guess it does pay to spend some quality time cleaning up my closet ~ going back to trying to spend 30 minutes of uninterrupted time just on my closet and it has helped as I am findings things like this cute dress and those shoes ~ shoes for me are ones that I will save especially if they have a hud ~ clothes I might save a nice gown, maybe a couple pairs of jeans and tops but for the most part am trying not to save so many clothing items…seasonal stuff goes into boxes and labeled like Halloween items, Christmas, etc..alright think I have rambled enough and need another cup of coffee so hang around as am sure will be back soon ~ hugzz and thank you for becoming one of my followers♥♥

Credits ~ this was shot at Backdrop City using  Pseudo- The Greenhouse Scene and “Sunglass” poses by Clix ~


Glam Affair ~ Karina/Jamaica
Celtic Myst “Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
#EMPIRE – Triteleia – Maitreya
*OAL* Vivian Maitreya ~ Eggplant
Chop Zuey All Faith Womens Necklace 1&2 advent gift
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.0
CCD – Nose Piercing
Clix Sunglasses – Glasses
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Starfall
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ears
*YS&YS Illy catya shape tweaked

Belated Rez day…

Looking down at my cell it just occurred to me that I am 9 years old ~ well I was on July 26, 2008 ~ woah that is a long time to be in Second Life ~ seems a lifetime ago that I was this naive meek noob that logged in and was absolutely clueless what Second Life was all about ~ let me see if I can show you what I looked like back then it is actually a hoot and oh but I thought I was hawt ~ well actually am sure we all did back then…

First Pic

Oh I did remain a blonde for a long time not wanting to change my hair color, style, color of my eyes but was at times a huge thing to make changes not like today where you can change your entire look within minutes ~ from that to this ~

Latest Look 

Still blonde for 90% of the time now am 100% mesh which did we even know what the future held for us absolutely not ~ even the latest Bento body along with Mesh Heads that have changed our looks even more ~ yup in 9 years so much change as I truly was clueless and laugh about so many of the misconceptions now or not really misconceptions but I barely could make it up a flight of stairs let alone figure out how to change clothes without being completely nude…now I still cannot build anything other than a box that has not changed nor can I sing a tune which honestly no one really wants me to sing seriously…but in these 9 glorious years in Second Life I have met some of the most amazing people ~ some are no longer with us as they have passed away, some just I guess got bored and moved on from SL and then some am so so happy that I have heard nothing from them and you know those types am talking about right…and some I am still very close to and still remain friends with that we have exchanged RL Christmas cards, that we truly are in the know about each others RL…but the most thing I can say about the past 9 years is that is has been such an amazing journey and I am wishing that it continues to be just that Amazing…So Happy Belated Rez Day to me ~ oh yes the pic I showed you earlier well may she rest in peace as she was retired and put into cold storage…am not far behind as I was created specifically for “Tiny Empires” so when they say one door closes another opens and ta da thats moi…till next time ~ Peace out♥

Credits ~ btw huge thank you to Hucci gifting the dress you see ~ simply gorgeous! 

#EMPIRE – Heather – Maitreya *Materials* not shown
*barberyumyum*bangs (E)
::HH:: Hucci Gallup Dress – GIFT (Lara)
CATWA HEAD Catya v2.16
CCD – Nose Piercing
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Darkstar
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
*YS&YS* ILLY Catya Shape tweaked a lot
Essences Catwa Skin Applier Tania

Shot on my Platform high in the Sky using Scene by Pseudo ~ Inked Corner Scene *Gacha* at SaNaRae Event as well as the poses from <k&S> Loveliness pose & Selfie Poses also from SaNaRae event