Have you…

Have you ever gotten frustrated by asking a question in a group either gotten no response or someone else asks a question right after you and it gets answered immediately ~ that is my biggest pet peeves for groups as you know you could respond with “sorry I do not know” but you sit and wait for couple moments and someone else asks a question right away it gets answered and for me personally it feels personal that no one acknowledges you in a group with the exceptions if you disagree with a comment then its like all hell breaks loose…Yes, I am understanding people do come into groups at various times so they might see your question and when you ask again same thing takes place ~ truly makes you feel either invisible, not wanted in the group and you might as well never ask for an opinion or a question because you will get ignored ~ some groups are super and others well even the Mods are arrogant and at times rude ~ those that are like the latter I bite my tongue so I won’t get ejected and banned yet I should say how would you like to be bullied in a group setting as there are ways to answer a question without the rude or being snooty attitudes that I have seen…yes that is my rant for today ~ maybe am speaking for a lot or a little but it happens frequently in groups ~ in a place where kindness, understanding should be the norm especially when RL is cruel at times, heartless and unforgiving Second Life Residents should try a little harder to help one another ♥ just saying…my outfit is made up of various gifts that please check the credits ♥

Shot using my Touch Studio with Purple Pose #14 that comes with it

LeLuck Autumn Matt Lippy ~ Gift EBENTO Advent
Euphoric Magic Lashes
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
! !*ALLURA*! !-Onyx Moon Necklace Past Advent gift
/Wasabi Pills/ Ginny Windblown *Past FLF
{sallie} Hold Me Knit – Bobble Knit Dress – past Gacha Item
!Black Swan Sensual Stockings ~ past gift
::MA:: Steam Punk Boots “Lenora” – Maitreya
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring
Chop ZueyWillow Love – Womens Wedding Band
Pumec Skin ~ Marcella ~ May tone
Shape ~ Mine

beach day…


Yesterday Dena and I finally got together and decided to escape to the beach to enjoy the last couple of weeks of summer ~ exploring a place called Baja Cove part of the Baja Norte sims was fun with the landscaping and sounds of the surf made the entire outing enjoyable…walking around wore us out so we pulled out the umbrella and picnic stuff and found a nice quiet place by the water to rest, relax and just enjoy the day…yes had to bring my book to finish up reading the latest James PattersonTexas Ranger” ~ am a huge fan of his ~ while I read Dena enjoys an ice cold glass of white wine that we brought…as we sit and enjoy listening to the ocean waves am going to also give you a closer look at one of 7 Deadly s[K]ins called Brooklyn


This is the freckled version of Brooklyn in Pineapple and wearing it browless as I do love my Lurid brows ~ younger I used to get freckles and freckles during the summer and got teased by the “mean girls” ~ for me it was no biggie as I was such a beach person I didn’t mind the freckles or the nose peeling even though I wore sunscreen and zinc oxide on nose and lips ~ was my badge to show everyone where I spent my summers in the outdoors enjoying the surf and sand ~ Izara Zuta creator/owner of 7 Deadly s[K]ins gives just enough of a smattering of freckles to look just perfect ♥  This gorgeous skin has 3 versions regular, blushing and freckled so please try a demo on to see how they will look on you ~ you can find Brooklyn at the Blush event till the 24th of September ~ rides will be below ~ Enjoy ♥♥

“No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change.”
Barbara DeAngelis


Shot on the location of Baja Cove using the poses in the chairs ~ Props used: {what next} Provence Picnic Picnic Basket, {what next} Provence Picnic Cake, {what next} Provence Picnic Drinks Tray, beach umbrella – aqua ~ creator/Raquel Gagliano, EURI’S BEACH TOWEL, and Dutchie beach chair fresh wood ~ rides to 7 Deadly s[K]ins, Baja Cove, Blush event:::Sn@tch, Truth Hair::MA::, Blueberry, and {what next}

Dena is wearing:
Skin glam Affair
!Rebel Hope – Willow Mesh Crop Top_Maitreya
::MA:: URBAN SWAG Maitreya Sneakers
Blueberry – Luxe Box June – Lover Skirts –
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Triumph Eyes (right) – Electric
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
TRUTH / Deja
*YS&YS* ILLY Catya
CATWA Bento Brows Shape

am wearing:
Izzie’s Flip Flop tan lines
7 Deadly s[K]ins ~ Brooklyn Freckles Pineapple
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst “Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
:::Sn@tch Donna Top
:::Sn@tch Lacey Hair
:::Sn@tch Sooyoung Skinny Jeans
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes – Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape Mine

Time flies…

Cant believe that on the 2nd of September I have been in SL Nine years ~I know right Nine years~ time just seems to have flown by with it so many people have come into my life,some have stayed, some have just been passing through and other have gone on to pastures new.One thing I will say it that Zak Zamin has always been there to pass me a Birthday pin and want to shout out a big Thank You to him for doing that it’s much appreciated.  With that now said thought I would bring you a closet post as I have been trying to sort it out a bit ~Please don’t laugh I know it is bulging at the seams but give a girl a chance she will get there in the end with her cleaning lol~

From my closet

This is something I took out, looked at, tried it on, and really liked it.. I thought together they made a good looking combination-great for weekend wearing when you just want to look good and feel comfortable and now let me show you in more detail …

This winning combination comes from Sage named Josie and is just right for the chilly starts that are coming up here this side of the pond (UK).  The cozy hooded jacket with its drawstring ties along with the bandanna top underneath ~ with a extensive hud not only for the jacket but the under top too – along with that Sage has given you the option of being able you change the lettering on the top too ~  have to say that I just love the clothes from this store there is so much thought and details the creator has put into the outfits ~

You’re just going to love the jeans too as you are able to change both the front and the back textures with great detailing to the pockets and the belt to the waistband.  They are straight fitting skinny with tight ankles and a zip trim to the back …Now the only decision to make is which version from the solids that I am wearing, the stripes or the patterns ~ where to get either or all of these versions you have either Marketplace or Sage’s Main Store ~ just to let you in on a little hint that if you become a group member this outfit is ONLY 99L and that is a huge huge bargain one of the perks to becoming a group member of SAGE ~ as I wander around her mainstore am finding more and more stuff that I know will be getting at another time ~ Till next time stay safe ~ Dena♥

Am Wearing:
Skin by Pink Fuel-Hazel- April – Powder-Pack
::MA:: Maitreya High Wedge Sneakers “Kingston”
IKON Triumph Eyes- Electric
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Sage- Josie Jeans MAITREYA
Sage- Josie Jacket/Top MAITREYA
[e] Elika hair
*YS&YS* ILLY Catya Shape Tweaked

Shot all on location of Foxcity using the handbag poses from LumiPro 2017


It is always nice when you find someone in Second Life that you just click with ~ could be a male or a female but the relationship is not a romantic one just as super good friends with only the benefits of being able to talk about anything and everything ~ one that you know will never judge you unless they are telling you what you are wearing just does make your bum look fat or the hair color is not flattering for you ~ that kind of friendship that being honest with each other but not in a hurtful way but one that will give you help when you need it, a shoulder to cry on and one that no matter how many days pass you are there for each other ~ that for me besides Sten is my Bestie Dena Teardrop ~ we laugh to the point of snorting or tears coming down our faces, we listen to each other rant and vent about whatever is going on in our lives at the moment ~ and we can make statements that are not hurtful but honest like I mentioned above ~ we do voice and I love listening to her accent as she is across the pond from me and yes at times I have to ask her to spell the word LOL but for the most part we are like two peas in a pod ~ or as some say Sisters from a different mother hehehe ~ plus we needed to upgrade our pics of the two of us as what we have was before we graduated to our Mesh Heads ~

fooling around

This really reflects our silly sides that there are times that my tummy really hurts from all the laughing we do and once we stop its like we ask “what were we laughing about” if you asked for me to give an example I cannot remember one LOL ~ yes CSR does affect me at times *giggling* but I have to say that I do love this pose by Image Essentials called Goofy Nerds and it is available at Designer Circle for 10 more days ~ grab my TAXI ~ it is a couple pose but just another way of thinking outside the box when you look at poses to not just think only male/female ~

Best Friends Forever

Little more portrait style that I used an older pose called “Best Friends Forever” by [Cloud] but trying to remember where I got it as the Main Store is no longer there ~ even looked on Marketplace but I am sad to say it is no longer available ~ both images I think reflect Dena and myself as we can be funny and we can be supportive ~ For me my wish is that each of you does have a “bestie” in here as it makes life more interesting and a lot of fun ~ till next time please be good to yourself and others ~ hugzz to all

Credits ~ thanks to Kay Weston of Image Essentials for creating this fun pose and always letting me blog for you ~ to my Bestie Dena again I thank you for putting up with my grumpiness and bitchiness ~ you truly are my best friend ~

Am Wearing:
*katat0nik* (eye sparkles) Autumn Blues
CATWA HEAD Catya v2.16
CCD – Nose Piercing
IKON Odyssey Eyes  – Darkstar
Kaithleen’s Grunge Hoodie –
Pure Poison – Kuki Sneakers – Maitreya – Black
Tableau Vivant \\ Rossella hair ~
[hh] Tashina Jeans
*ys&ys tweaked
7 Deadly S[k]ins Cicely GGift

Dena is wearing:

::MA:: Maitreya High Wedge Sneakers “Kingston” {Pair}
IKON Triumph Eyes  – Electric
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Sage- Josie Jeans MAITREYA
Sage- Josie Jacket/Top MAITREYA
[e] Desta
*YS&YS* ILLY Catya Shape Tweaked

A Great Find from A Group

I love finding great bargains from clothes, poses, props, furniture or even houses, which I guess is my main reason I belong to so many groups…now to specify in that first statement regarding bargains just because they might be a freebie if I do not like it for one reason or another have learned not to just rush out and get it because we all know just like RL where it will sit ~ in your closet – stuffed away till you take another peek and maybe pull it out, try it on and again decide you don’t like it so over my vast years of experience and finally learning in SL to be picky and choosy …today was one of those days from this group Fifty Linden Fridays that I decided to hit each store that was on their list ~ expanding my prop inventory and scene creation am venturing further out with items that months ago I might not of given it a thought…but looking over at other blogs that I admire I noticed they put so much more into their blogs rather than just pose against this white background ~ nothing wrong in that but gets bleh and boring time after time so am hitting on props to recreate as well as travel around SL ~ ok veered off a little but needed to give you a little back information…the FLF group sends out a notecard every Friday with a list of stores on that list and the list varies from week to week from different vendors that put out one item for 50L…OMG well today I hit the mother lode ummm seriously let me show you this great find…

Recycled Garden Cottage 

Yes this adorable little garden cottage is on today’s list for 50L ~ can you believe it!!!  Look at the detailing from the shingles to the weathered look on the door to the grass and those gorgeous daffodils…What and who is this ~ never heard of them till today but they are now on my watch list to go and have a peek at ~ Name of the store is Funky Junk and the awesome owner is Ulaa Coronet ~ really was xcited that am sure you can tell about this…plus a new store for me to prowl around in on my late night shopping on Marketplace  as well…already saw a couple of things that am putting in my favorites to buy in the future…


Yes inside is empty another plus for me as I can practice with creating various indoor scenes that have envied from other bloggers ~ door opens too ~ guess I should give you a heads up on what am wearing ~ the capri’s are from Indyra that come with a great hud to change colors ~ bravo to the creator for the hud makes them a keeper as I will get a lot of use wearing ~ the shirt comes from Yeliz as part of the Bunny outfit that is still on a promo price…also comes with a hud plus it is mix/match as the bottoms which are not shown are a cute pair of shorts…you know I will be saving that outfit as well…then my favorite shoes that I gotta giggle hubby said if anyone could find high heel sneakers it would be me but actually my bestie who we think so alike found these on Marketplace from the Mesh Agency that ok you know am gonna tell you they also have a hud to change the colors ~ oh yes lastly that hair was a new find from the Arcade by Tableau Vivant called “May” and on my 2nd pull I got this with the hud “Color Fades” some nice pastel colors as you can see..for me what a great Friday finds….kind of makes up for my coffeemaker dying on me this morning and having to throw on clothes and do an early morning walk to the store for a cuppa ~ crossing my fingers that it doesn’t pour down raining the next 5 days before my new one arrives…if you are loving that cute cute cottage my suggestion is RUN as fast as you can to grab it before the SL clock strikes midnight….this is one 50L bargain you do not wanna miss out on ~ thanks again to Ulaa Coronet~till next time hugzz to all!  Oh yes and before I forget thank you to the hard work that OMGWTF Barbecue does each week with putting together this great Friday list for us …


“Eternally” Gold and Platinum Claddagh Ring 
*MC* “Falsies” Eyelash 
::MA:: Slink High Wedge Sneakers “Kingston” 
:Diamante: Eye Gems Piercing
AlVulo ! MEsh eyeliner Starshine black
Indyra Capris
CCD – Nose Piercing
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5
Meva Short Stone Necklace 
Slink  Hands – Casual
Slink Female Feet  – High
Tableau Vivant \\ May hair – Color fades ~ found at Arcade
~Misha J.~ Belly Ring Heart 
Glam Affair – Amberly – Jamaica 
IKON Lucid Eyes – Spearmint