all about gifts…

All About gifts
Everyone loves receiving/getting gifts especially in Second Life where so many groups offer monthly gifts to their members in return for a group fee…Bestie and I have spoken about this various times we are not the type that gets our panties all in a twist if the creator has not put out a group gift right at the first of the month ♥  Dena and myself do have our favorite groups that we have been loyal members for years and the biggest reason is fantastic customer service…The designers/creators respond to questions in a timely manner, they have competent staff that knows the items and usually can solve the issue and if not they make sure the store owner is aware of any problems so they can relay an answer or even a refund if necessary ~ designers/owners also let their staff know how to contact them as well even putting on their profile contact information plus designers/owners are really good at keeping their members informed as to sales, new items and even a very important thing to excellent customer service is to send out a notice to reflect if the owner will be on vacation, or an RL emergency came up that will take them away from SL for possibly months at a time ~ when store owners disappear for over months and months members do get concerned and wonder if the store closing, there is no mention of gifts at all but members are curious if they see nothing new has been added in over a 6 month time period what is going on…what is also disheartening is when in a group chat someone asks those questions and is berated for that ~ being called selfish, bullied to the point why ask such a question as yes I agree RL will always come first yet when absense is stretched into months on end with the owner never sending out a notice to let her customers and group members be aware that possibly it might be a year or so and to be patient and thank everyone for waiting♥  It is called firstly good manners and great customer service ~ speaking of group gifts what Dena and I are wearing is a group gift from Scandalize that comes in pairs and a hud that will let you change the belt color…thats it for now ~ please let me say how much I appreciate all those that read my blog and those that send me compliments and comments as they truly make me smile ~ thanks to bestie for jumping in and being a part of this blog ♥  hugzz

Shot at my home using the pose found on MarketplaceBest Friends” by Lolla Marais, the dog and bird are by Just Animals 

Both are wearing

Skin-DeeTalez ~ Dena
Skin-Pumec ~ mine
Shape-our Own
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Promise-Dena
IKON Odyssey-Mine
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Scandalize. Caitli. Maitreya-Group Gift
Scandalize. Graci . Maitreya-G Gift
Scandalize.Vivian.SHIRT. Maitreya-G Gift

Shopping spree…

wearing newest outfit Paula by AnaStyle

Yes I am on a shopping quest as it has been awhile since I have splurged on clothes and stuff as you can see by my bag along with my outfit as I just could not wait to try it and wear it ~ this gorgeous dress “Paula by AnaSTyle will be available at Designer Showcase starting on the 5th till the end of the month ~ giving you that sleek line yet there is a nice split for those that are more daring all the way up to the thigh as you also see those gorgeous shoes that come with it along with a short or long pearl necklace ~ very classy ~

Close up 

You also have a very nice pearl bracelet that wraps nicely around your wrist as well as pearl drops that with my hair you cannot see them my apologies ~ am wearing the latest in nail polish by Cazimi in Posh/pink where you will have several different color choices the creator has truly gone overboard on that ~ love them all ~ lastly those gorgeous sunglasses by !Haysuriza ~ these truly finish the outfit and the creator also gives you various instructions about adjusting and darkness of the lens ~ that is truly a great feature to be able to do ~ a lot of really great stuff at Designer Showcase this month and some new designers are coming aboard as well ~ also in the credits will give you LM’s to the designers am blogging for so you can also check out their main stores too ~ again thank you for taking time out to read, follow and send such nice comments as it really is appreciated and makes me smile ♥ till next time be good to yourself and others *hugzz

Credits go to AnaSTyle for allowing me to wear that gorgeous outfit ~ please make sure you try demo on ~ Cazimi for the always perfect polish to compliment my nails and !Haysuriza with those gorgeous sunglasses ~as well here is your Ride to Designer Showcase  just remember doors open on the 5th ~ thank you ♥

Designer Showcase1

This was shot at Backdrop City using RAMA – #selfie_RAMA TF Showroom backdrop and Shopping Pose #2 along with Blog my Nails by Something New


Glam Affair ~ Karina Jamaica from FLF
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
!HAYSURIZA_Eyewear_Pilot _004Mecha ‘for Lady
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
AnaSTyle – Paula – Dress Maitreya Exp BLACK
AnaSTyle – Paula – Earrings
AnaSTyle – Paula – Pearl Bracelet
AnaSTyle – Paula – Pearl Long Necklace
AnaSTyle – Paula – Shoes Maitreya
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.0
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Starfall
lock&tuft – lily ~ from FLF
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
*YS&YS Illy catya shape tweaked

Time to relax…

When you have had a hard day whether it be in the office, nursing, teaching or whatever your field of work is you just can’t wait to get home to change out of your work clothes, wipe away the make-up from your face, and just chill what better way than to slip into a comfy Chenille sweater by Finale Couture at this month’s Designer Showcase, grab that glass of wine, put some music on, then just drift off to your special place.

Wearing Chenille by Finale Couture

I  love looking out of my window watching the world drift by as you can see from the above image that is just what am doing well almost watching as I turned around so you could see how uber comfy this oversized Chenille sweater in Fuschia from Finale Couture is~ since I wear Maitreya the fit is perfect~Ok yes I do still have on my jewelry smiles, a girl likes to take her time undressing just in-case someone comes knocking on the door – yes you will be pleased to hear all the pieces of jewelry are included. There are six colors of this comfy Chenille sweater for you to choose…ok ok give me a few seconds and I will let you see the heels that the creator has also graciously included…

Matching heels 

Look at these very glamorous stiletto heels that fit Maitreya, Belleza, and Slink feet with the added bonus of making your feet look very neat they do wonderful things to make your ankles look very cute too don’t they? Well, does not look like anyone is going to knock so am going to go and soak in a hot bubble bath~so till next time take care
hugs Dena ♥

Thank you to Finale Couture for the opportunity to blog their clothes, to Aisha Corvair for taking a chance on me to blog for Designer Showcase and have to say a big thank you also to Mojolina Resident for the great backdrop she has put together at Backdrop City.

Shot on Location of Backdrop City using Poses an lar [poses]The Pip mini series

Am wearing:

Skin-YS&YS Illy
FC Chenille Earrings – Fuchsia
FC Chenille Necklace w/Resizer – Fuschia
FC Chenille Sweater – Fuschia Maitreya
Finale Couture Chenille Heels – Fuschia Maitreya
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Dew
Hair lock&tuft – bass
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
*YS&YS* ILLY Catya Shape


oh no Crows…

If you are old like me *sounds like a song huh* might remember this movie called “The Birds” by Alfred Hitchcock ~ loved his movies but they would literally freak me out and give me nightmares especially Psycho – couldn’t and wouldn’t take a shower unless someone like my Mom or Dad was guarding the door ~ silly but same with the birds I would get super freak if I saw crows sitting on the wires ~ but wanted something to really draw your attention to this upcoming event “Scare me Silly” it starts on Friday 13th and I got a quick peek at the Sim and OMG it is awesome as I cannot wait to just walk around and look ~ seems there will be lotz to do from shopping with so many merchants participating along with a pumpkin hunt that I have seen couple of the prizes and you do not want to miss out ~ but the biggest reason am honored to be a blogger for this is again a huge Charity event supporting The American Diabetes Foundation ~ ever wonder if you are at risk ~ please go HERE to learn exactly what they do ~ usually I do not ramble on this long so please accept my sincerest apologies ~ guess the thought of all those crows that I had come upon at Image Essentials really has muddled my brain and shuddering still that there is photographic proof of it ~ had a nice new Puffer Jacket from Rush one of the vendors at Scare Me and it was like OMG all these crows…see for yourself

Wearing Rush’s Puffer Jacket w/tshirt

Even the world just turned black & white as well ~ freaky is not the word and that skull sitting there in front of me just another scare me moment…guess I should bare up and try to get you a better look ~ shoo crows FLY AWAY

RUSH ~ Puffer Jacket

This is a jacket/t-shirt one piece but the fit is perfect for my Maitreya body ~ comes in Red, Orange, Pink and the one am wearing Black ~ there will be signage as to which one will be donating 100% of the proceeds ~ now the pants are from Rush that I wanted to check them out on their Marketplace and they really fit and look great ~ please take a stroll over there when doors open on Friday 13th, which is so fitting *giggling* just walking around will be a treat for you and since the doors are closed tightly my Hearse is denied access till then but soon ~ hey please stick around as Dena and I have lotz more to share with you ~ just loving October as it leads up to one of my #2 holidays hehe…till then be good to yourself and kind to others ♥


Credits go to Scare me Silly and all the designers who are honoring me with their items ~ Kay from Image Essentials for her creepy props ~ and to you my readers for supporting me ~ Thank YOU ♥♥

Am Wearing:
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
“Eternally” Gold and Platinum Claddagh Ring
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.0
CCD – Nose Piercing
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Darkstar
lock&tuft – boom
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
RUSH Black Tartan pants Maitreya
RUSH No Sugar BLACK PUFFER JACKET + TShirt Lara will be a Scare Me Event
*YS&YS Catwa skin and shape appliers
Shot at Image Essentials using her “Crow Prop/pose


What Can I say….

Ummm well not sure what can I say about this post ~ shuffling my toes around and blushing ~ hello everyone am back to show you and especially my hubby and bestie ~ gosh not sure how to even explain I just do not know how this happened am like this morning woke up fine was doing some landscaping around our property and it was like BAM!!!!  Gawd what can I say to my sexy hubby and my bff Dena its like there is no explanation but but …… shrugs so guess with that being said will show you the pic and maybe that will explain it all …..right?

OMG how did this happen…

As I stand here holding this baby that am clueless about ~ Seriously my loving husband I know what it looks like but but please believe me its not at all what it seems ~ you must believe me ~ Dena am just so confused like that sign beside me ~ geeez ~ but this outfit at least I know about it ~ a cute romper by Hilly Haalan that comes with a great 30 texture hud to satisfy your thirst for change ~ this one even comes with a cute sailor hat and scarf…

Baby Mine? 

From the above pic you can see the cuteness of the scarf and also a baby that I still am clueless how that happened and yes I do know how babies are born but you know SL sometimes stranger things do take place guess this is one of them…now I did not check to see if this is still available in her inworld store but here is the LINK for the Marketplace one ~ great price ~ now the shoes and socks are not included as they were from the Fifty Linden Friday ~ same with the hair ~ another group that I love or if you are group full then go to my favorite blog  Seraphim on Fridays and see whats available ~ I could not live without Seraphim they are absolutely in the know about so many events, fairs and also show you a gallery of what is being offered at each ~ you must check them out ….ok now shuffling my feet I must tell you about THE BABY so hubby, bestie and my readers and followers are you ready to hear what I gotta say ~


Yes look at the calendar everyone its April 1st and the baby I knew would come in handy one day to freak out hubby and everyone ~ sorry but there are no SL babies in my future ~ that was a dealbreaker to hubby NO BABIES…and winning from Black Bantam at The Arcade this was my first pull ~ giggling ~ as I place the baby backed in her box until who knows….so now you know DID I FOOL you *grinning….till next time remember be xtra careful today so you don’t get pranked….trying to think of one to tell my RL roomie but she has enough issues I wouldn’t want her to freak out hmmmm well maybe a little LOL so stick around for some more goodies ~ Dena and I have a great place for you to go to ~ be good to yourself ~ PEACE OUT ♥


[Black Bantam] Baby Yukiko
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics 
“Eternally” Gold and Platinum Claddagh Ring 
CATWA HEAD Catya  v2.10
CCD – Nose Piercing
E.V.E Love is a Battlefield mesh face tattoo 
fri. – Macey.Platforms (Charred) – Slink ~ found at FLF past
fri. – Macey.Socks (Add-on) – Maitreya ~ found at FLF past
IKON Hope Eyes  – Nymph
lock&tuft – boom ~ found at FLF past 
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V3.5
Puzzle heart necklace for her – silver
Slink Avatar Enhancement Feet Deluxe V1.2.4
Slink Avatar Enhancement Hands  – Casual
[hh] Jennel Sailor Scarf 
Insol: ST04 ‘Copper’ 
CATWA Catya Brows Shape
Lurid Tousled Brow
Insol Catwa face applier Daria ~ Copper

Shot at my Residence using Prop ~ Which Way Sign Post by Enchant3d