see me…

Ever stop and think do people see you ~ when you see someone come online do you think to say hello or does their name just vanish as you go about your SL life…that’s what I think at times do people see me ~ then I wonder why they do not say hello or am I invisible…having a very short friends list as am not a huge collector of people in SL or in RL ~and yes I at times forget to say hello and feel badly when I look at the last time we have spoken…you never know at times if they just might disappear from your life leaving you wondering where did such and such go ~ could be it is just me with those thoughts about do people see me or do you ever wonder…hugzz ♥♥
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
(Yummy) Thin Hoop Charms – Gold
::SG:: Laura Maitreya
Sintiklia Bangs
Sintiklia Yuki
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE (resize script)
Emery Clara Pants Dogtooth for Maitreya Body Lara
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Womens Wedding Band
[hh] Amaryllis Top MAITRYA
Shape ~ Mine
Skin ~ Pumec-Marcella/May tone

Sax Girl…

Wish I could play the sax like Kenny G or John Coltrane except I cannot play any type of instrument at all ~ my grandma taught me to read notes and play piano and the only song that I could semi play by reading music is “Can’t Help Falling in Love” sung by Elvis ~ that was my fave song growing up as was Elvis and I would practice over and over and over till my father would yell “choose another song” LOL today am lucky if I could play chopsticks hehehe ~ forget singing as I could not sing on tune at all…guess that just was not my niche…if you are wondering where I got this pose all this month the pose fair has come …If you join the Pose Group there are a lot of pose gifts this one is included from Artis ~ hubby is like me and loves finding new poses for us to try out, take pics and just have fun with them ♥  will find out what he thinks of this one as he didn’t see me unbox all the gifts last night ~  bloggers and photographers you really need to check out The Pose Fair ~ lot of great single poses, couples, and props along with all those free gifts too♥ Here is YOUR RIDE ~ till next time am wishing you a healthy start to the new year ~ hugzz

Shot at Backdrop City using Artis pose gift “Sax Girl

Hair is from No.Match NO.CHAINS ~ Body is Maitreya ~ Skin is PUMEC 


Sitting here on my steps thinking the year is almost over and how many changes took place ~ ending an SL relationship, changing the blog, reconnecting with someone very special and finding that some things never change like my inventory that is filled with unopened boxes from the Shop & Hop event that Linden has put on ~ if you have not made it yet I urge you don’t procrastinate and not go ~ there are 5 sims Aurelian, Gilded, Golden, Halycon, and Tinseled with gifts from over 100 Designer stores like Apple Fall, Blueberry, Fancy Decor, Salt & Pepper, What Next, and yes various stores just for the men as well with gifts in every store ~ as well they are cutting their prices drastically to entice you♥  Over the next couple days will be showing some of the gifts that I got from this event ~ so I better get my butt to open all those boxes that I have piled up in the living room LOL ~ ooops forgot about what am wearing to tell you it was a Marketplace find that includes the outfit, shoes, belly gems, ankle bracelet ~ till next time please take time for yourself to breathe ♥♥ hugzz

shot at my home using Artis Sit on the Beach pose surrounded the Cubic Republic’s Shop&Hop gift of Potted Cyclamen Pink, Magenta, Red, White.

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
!CGF- Leather & Silver Star Anklet
!CGF-Low Cut Teal Denim-Maitreya
!CGF-Silver/Amber Belly Piercing
!CGF-Tan/Teal HALF TIP TOE Bow Sneaker
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
MICHAN – Celine Circlet Shop&Hop GIFT
NamiiChu ~ Silver Twinklies Shop&Hop Gift
TRUTH / Joy ~ Group Gift


against the wall…


Am sure there are days that we all feel like we are being pushed against the wall so do we scream, rant or just give up? Neither but screaming would be nice to do except for me my girlfriend and her hubby might come running to see what is wrong and that would not be a good thing LOL ~ little short story I worked part-time as a waitress at this fairly huge restaurant that held one big azz walk-in freezer where for brief moments it was where a lot of servers went to scream and vent cuz no one could hear you..also was great to step in and cool off especially if you went into the deep freezer section ~ anyway guess we all try to find a way to handle the stress mine is now getting up and doing a 5 min brisk walking in place w/Leslie Sansone hehe ~ for 5 minutes and 500 steps its a quick walk that helps ♥  this outfit “Stacey” by FURTACOR is uber sexy and hawt!  Wonder what hubby will think when he sees this am sure it will be very tantalizing and tempting for me to wear it and strut myself around hehehe ~ another great designer who has created an awesome hud with 11 different colors in addition to a nice pair of boots ~ Yes this is at Designer Showcase for the entire month along with a demo that will want to try this on for size as it fits my Maitreya body heavenly ♥♥ oh yes did you notice am wearing a brand new skin from 7 Deadly s[K]ins called Brooklyn ~ Izara Zuta creator/owner made this is 3 versions regular, freckled and blushing ~ Brooklyn will be available at the Blush event later this month♥

“Some days I wish I had the wisdom of a 90-year-old,

the body of a 20-year-old, and the energy of a 3-year-old.”


Kudos to each Designer from Designer Showcase as each box I open am delighted with them all ~ thank you ♥ Plus I really have to thank Aisha Convair who gave me such a nice compliment and who was the VERY first event owner that accepted me when I started seriously started blogging ~ she had a lot of faith in my ability as I am so grateful she did where there were moments just was not sure ~ hugzz and thank you Aisha ♥♥ Rides to 7 Deadly s[K]ins, Artis, Designer ShowcaseFurtaCor, Truth


7 Deadly s[K]ins Brooklyn in Butter
{Poeme}Booty, Ta-tas, & Belly Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
:::FurtaCor:::Stacey Bikini:::@Designer Showcase 11 choices Straps,Stones
:::FurtaCor:::Stacey Boots::
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
CCD – Nose Piercing
IKON Spectral Eyes- Passion
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape Mine


needed a smoke…

just one smoke

I quit smoking in RL over 6+ years ago. That was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life ~ yes am being honest and will admit to whoever I truly was addicted to nicotine for decades.  Did I know I was an addict ummm nope thinking I can quit when I want to, but never truly gave it a thought how hard it would be.  Smoking would relax me in times of stress like when my Father died I must of gone through a ton of smokes or when I was trying to lose weight ~ oh yes I smoked instead of eating and lost the weight quickly.  Usually I do not pose or show myself with a cigarette as the smell makes me sick and the fact that it stinks.  Today was like screw it I won’t smoke in RL but am gonna have a smoke in SL…being in SL you start to get a thicker skin and let comments of those and actions of others just roll off.  Lately I have truly been stunned and disappointed in the actions of some SL residents…taking advantage of peoples kindness is a huge sore spot for me.  I will not delve into the subject but it is something that I have mentioned to others and a friends are in agreement with me on this subject.  SL is made up of truly some great people from all parts of the world and are so giving that it makes me proud knowing that; yet sadly there are some individuals that take advantage of peoples kindness to the point it leaves such a bitter taste.  I found this quote on someone’s profile that I want to leave you with “be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.”

Credits: shot at Backdrop City using Paparazzi – BACKDROP – The Underpass – plain, pose by Ricelli Wall Series with the cigarette from Artis.

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
*AvaWay* Blume_Ring #13
*AvaWay* Blume_Ring #16
*AvaWay* Blume_Ring #3
*AvaWay* Blume_Ring #7
*AvaWay* Sindy_Maitreya_GIFT MIDI Ring
*AvaWay* Sindy_Maitreya_GIFT Ring
*PetroFF* Vienna –SET– Gold Pink Leather
Cae :: Balloon :: Necklace
Cae :: Devil :: Necklace
Cae :: Sharktooth :: Necklace
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Starfall
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
tram H0327 hair
YELIZ MESH “Caven” Overknee Boots
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ears
*YS&YS Illy catya shape tweaked
7 Deadly s{K}ins Shelby in Pineapple