know what…

I gotta laugh when some say SL and RL are not the same ~ cuz you know what I think at times that it is exactly like RL where you have cliques, mean girls who ignore you in group chats and make anonymous posts about you…guess I should be standing on a soapbox while doing this instead of sitting with my cutesy reindeer…some things never change in 10 years that I have been a resident of SL ~ except thinking people have gotten bolder, more judgmental, and  meaner ~ cripes I get tired of asking questions in groups and not being answered or because someone asks a stupid question and gets a stupid answer from another someone lets all jump on that person when the answer was funny…okay will stop now because first it is getting closer to Christmas and am seriously trying to be more understanding and have more compassion for those type of people that seem to think they are better than others and take it upon themselves to say hurtful things…Let me instead talk about this past weekend with the Monthly Midnight Madness gifts ~ my outfit that I was able to get both Midnight & Noon came from Pink Cream Pie that fit my Maitreya body perfectly and looks very winterish ~ The cute pose/prop from Lil’Bug is a past Gimme Gacha pressie…that’s it for me today and to my friends and supporters of my blog you truly make me smile and I am thankful for each one of you ~ hugzz ♥♥

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Monica Boots :: Maitreya :: Pink Cream Pie
Monica Dress :: Maitreya :: Pink Cream Pie
^^Swallow^^ Magic Pixie Ears

how did we…

How did we

ummm am not sure how we ended up with packages squished behind our backs, just know bestie Dena and I do get ourselves in some predicaments *giggling* speaking of which, Dena was scrolling through the archives and was mentioning something that I realized her and I have known each other for 3 years ~ WOW that has to be a milestone since I will admit honestly to the fact that I can count on my longtime female friends on one hand…most seem to just fade away or because am not truly known for being politically correct will say what’s on my mind and poof have offended and am off their friends list ~ oh Dena and I have had our ups and downs yet we have survived as truly best friends do ~ we know each others RL history on things, we voice whenever possible because her and I at times will get the giggles and it just doesn’t come across in text that you are laughing so hard or that tone when you go “seriously”…we discovered mesh bodies together that was a totally new experience for both of us since we were so clueless on how to even put it on us hehehe, we can both calm each other down when one of us has screwed up our head or something that we need one another to figure out the answers…same with mesh heads even though Dena did get hers before me and talked me through the process, which I thank her for a lot ~ at times am sure her eyes roll back into her head with my actions or things I have said as again my mouth at times has no filter ~ looking at the above pic am sure we thought we were trying to figure out how to carry all those boxes, or possibly we were just being us in a silly moment that best friends have ~ gotta say am so grateful for her being my bestie and am wishing each of you find or have that bestie to share and make memories in SL ♥♥ till next time be kinder to yourself as you are the most important person in your life…

Shot at my home *now decorated in snow* using prop/pose by Amitie You are my gift

Am wearing:
amara beauty ~ Charlotte
Sweet Tea Dreary Day Tights Grey Cable Knit
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagement Ring –

Dena is wearing almost the exact thing with the following items
Astrology HI Sabrina
C’est la vie-Emmi
*YS&YS ILLY~ PP June 2018
Supernatural Nose Piercing Balian
IKON ~ Odyssey ~ Industrial

Major changes…

Lately, I have been very disillusioned with blogging and SL and I spoke to a couple of friends about this ~ several just told me to step back and re-evaluate what makes me happy and go from there ~ thanks to them I am doing just that for several reasons that will remain with me ~ I do love SL and  think if I truly left I would regret it maybe not today but months from now ~ the decision I have made is to go back to what I started blogging about travels in SL ~ the places where you can wear all those fabulous clothes ~ events to attend that could be hunts, dances or just fun things to do ~ I want to be more a destination person as truly those that might be new SL is not just about shopping 24/7 ~ yes I am aware SL does have its own destination guide but some never make it in there due to various reasons ♥  There are some great places to explore, to take pics, to interact with that is what I want to show you…my wish for all those that have supported this blog by clicking on the follow me either by email or just bookmark me that you will continue to read this blog and just maybe I will give you places to explore, to have fun and realize there is more to SL than just shopping♥  As well I appreciate each designer that gave me the opportunity to blog their items and say thank you for understanding my decision ~ means a lot with the kind words I received back ♥

thank you ♥

always me

Rez Day…


Yes, today I turn 10 years old in SL ~ at times am like whaaat I have been in SL that long? Honestly never thought when I first logged it would turn into something special ~so I put on a gown gotten looking fancy and sat down with one of my longtime friend Brutus sharing some memories ~ a friend had talked me into finally giving SL a chance as I was uncertain as I had tried “Sims” and got bored quickly that was not really sure I would even like it ~ what a HUGE difference I discovered even back then ~ once I logged never once have I regretted a day and no it has not been all roses ~ lot of dark times, my heart got broke, which that even shocked me the connections and relationships you make in here…now below is one of my first profile pics that I took myself and oh my I just thought wow ~ sheesh now I look am like woah but you do have to think 10 years ago our hair was like cement, eyes had no depth and shape was just that we were basically clones ~

early profile pic

One good thing I had a lot of help from strangers ~ learning where to buy hair, tats, makeup ~ who had the best eyes and started my shopaholic addiction ♥ every day I was amazed at discovering what you could do like going to clubs hearing live singers and finding that I could be a great dancer and dance the nights away.  Even today I have friends that I met back then and still, we talk about the “good ole days”  Never bored, as SL and communities provide so much that if you are bored as I repeat over and over to EXPLORE ~ its simple go visit Paris in the 1920’s, look at the destination guide for hunts, clubs, etc. and talk to whoever you meet ~ look at the profiles as you can find some interesting places that people have visited.  It is nice to have friends to do stuff with but I will say 85% of my time in SL is by myself and not just for blogging as that just became a major part of my SL life ~ thank you to all the friends I have met in my 10 years as many of you still hold a special place in my heart ♥

“Many people will walk in and out of your life,

but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.”

Eleanor Roosevelt

7 Deadly s[K]ins Focus in Apricot
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
#EMPIRE – Hyacinth – *MM* metalic black
.:JUMO:. Aviv Feathers*
.:JUMO:. Aviv Gown
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
Chop Zuey Gloriana Diamond Bracelet
Chop ZueyGloriana Diamond Earrings
Chop ZueyGloriana Diamond Necklace
IKON Spectral Eyes- Passion
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
TRUTH / Gwen
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears

Shape ~ Mine

Shot at my Residence using Image Essentials pose Anna ~