Some may think its corny or way too not chic yet for me I do think its sweet when at times you wear matching tops ~ oh am not speaking about a daily or even a weekly thing ~ no that gets to be a tad creepy in my eyes seeing adults always dressed alike ~ the sweaters are from The Arcade by Bleich ♥  oh looking for more gifts head over there and in the middle there is a huge Christmas tree that you can see underneath a lot of gifts ~ still sorting stuff from all the Advents and group gifts ~ speaking of gifts for those that are members of Calas Ty and Truck have the rather fabulous scarves that you see wrapped around our neck as gifts this year…Little Frenchie is a past gift and is still out at the Pavilion for those looking for a cute pet…I am still curious about your thoughts if you think matching holiday sweaters are just creepy or they are alright in moderation…RL is screaming as today is my appointment with a surgeon nothing major ~ before I head out I wanted to comment on the nice remarks that have been getting on my blog posts ~ thank you so much for those as they do mean a lot to me ♥♥ till next time as it gets closer and closer to the big day take time out for yourself ~ enjoy a moment of peace, sip on your favorite drink whether hot, cold, alcoholic or not hehehe…

This was shot at our home using the Glamrus Pose White Christmas that am not sure exactly when or where I got it but they are now only on Marketplace.



3D MESHiah-Christmas hat
A&D Clothing – Pants -Austin-
Bleich – Xmas ’89 Ugly Sweater *TheArcade
CATWA HEAD Daniel v3.2
Stealthic – Like Lust
[CG2018] Mens Winter Scarf
[Signature] Gianni Body – Body – v4.6
-NIVARO- Skin – 04. Lion Tone

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Beloved Jewelry : Snowflake Necklace/POE gift
Bleich – Xmas ’89 Ugly Sweater – Snow
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
TRUTH / Athena
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring
[CG2018] Ladies Tintable Winter Scarf
^^Swallow^^ Magic Pixie Ears Left

no peeking…

Have you ever peeked inside one of your presents ~ were you happy you did or felt guilty afterward…One time during my high school years I had asked Santa *yes my parents made us still write Santa Lists*, for a pair of these very popular go-go boots *YES am old hehehe* My girlfriend kept pestering me about I should go peek to see if they got them ~ my tummy was rolling at that since peeking was not something I have ever done and really did not want to start now…since she lived 2 doors down and was always at my house she was becoming annoying with that question ~ on and on till I wanted to say shut up, stop, and alright already…end of the story is yes I did a small peek at the box that you could tell was a boot box but no I never fully opened it and the guilt of peeking was horrid ~ a little funny seeing even as a high schooler perfect was not a word to describe me ~ not a horrible person but did all that I could to push my parents buttons to the point of getting on restriction most of my teen years ♥ After my Dad passed away Christmas Eve was never the same especially for my Mom as her and my Dad would share that night putting out the pressies along with stocking stuff ~ one Christmas Eve  I wanted to do something special, before coming home from work, went to her favorite Chinese carryout, and splurged on her favorites that became our Christmas eve ritual for years to come…it is always nice to have those memories to look back to enjoy even if some are sad and not pleasant ♥ ♥ please remember December is the spirit of giving ♥

This was shot at a friends platform with the help of Delcinea and her partner Lord who I truly thank them for setting this up, giving me some suggestions & tips for future shots…

Props used :CP: Winter Cuddle Sofa (PG), JIAN Splendid Spaniels 19. Floor Snoozer, [Con.] Winter Wagons – Die Cast Car – Red, -David Heather-Fashionista Doll RARE, R(S)W Holiday Ornaments – Boxed, [LJ] Take Out – Potstickers, [LJ] Take Out – Wonton, [LJ] Take Out – Chopsticks, .random.Matter. – Holiday Crafts – Wrapping PaperDRD – My Miserable Holiday – Chair, DRD – My Miserable Holiday – Carpet, Something New No Peeking, and [FOURTH WALL] Mountain Lodge Skybox -Builders Box December 

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Sintiklia Bangs
Sintiklia Kimberly
WSC Black leggings
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
CATWA HUD Master F v3.2
CATWA HUD [C] Anim. Female v3.0
CATWA TEETH A [Small] v3.2
CATWA Tongue piercing
DeeTaleZ Mesh BEAUTY MOLE (resize script)
WSC Holly Christmas Sweater
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring
^^Swallow^^ Magic Pixie Ears

how did we…

How did we

ummm am not sure how we ended up with packages squished behind our backs, just know bestie Dena and I do get ourselves in some predicaments *giggling* speaking of which, Dena was scrolling through the archives and was mentioning something that I realized her and I have known each other for 3 years ~ WOW that has to be a milestone since I will admit honestly to the fact that I can count on my longtime female friends on one hand…most seem to just fade away or because am not truly known for being politically correct will say what’s on my mind and poof have offended and am off their friends list ~ oh Dena and I have had our ups and downs yet we have survived as truly best friends do ~ we know each others RL history on things, we voice whenever possible because her and I at times will get the giggles and it just doesn’t come across in text that you are laughing so hard or that tone when you go “seriously”…we discovered mesh bodies together that was a totally new experience for both of us since we were so clueless on how to even put it on us hehehe, we can both calm each other down when one of us has screwed up our head or something that we need one another to figure out the answers…same with mesh heads even though Dena did get hers before me and talked me through the process, which I thank her for a lot ~ at times am sure her eyes roll back into her head with my actions or things I have said as again my mouth at times has no filter ~ looking at the above pic am sure we thought we were trying to figure out how to carry all those boxes, or possibly we were just being us in a silly moment that best friends have ~ gotta say am so grateful for her being my bestie and am wishing each of you find or have that bestie to share and make memories in SL ♥♥ till next time be kinder to yourself as you are the most important person in your life…

Shot at my home *now decorated in snow* using prop/pose by Amitie You are my gift

Am wearing:
amara beauty ~ Charlotte
Sweet Tea Dreary Day Tights Grey Cable Knit
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagement Ring –

Dena is wearing almost the exact thing with the following items
Astrology HI Sabrina
C’est la vie-Emmi
*YS&YS ILLY~ PP June 2018
Supernatural Nose Piercing Balian
IKON ~ Odyssey ~ Industrial

but first…

End of Autumn

ok case in point about “but first” as I was ready to do this blog had the title all picked out, image done and gawd I forgot to write down the title but first I had RL stuff laundry, etc to get done, then I remembered to check online email which OMG now I remember what this was *sheesh ~ whew good thing my brain kicked in reminding me what it was ~ SEE as I was telling Sady in a comment of her blog post how many have those “but first” *giggling* anyhooo first let me apologize to the bloggers that I do follow that I have been so lax in checking my SL email where their blog posts come to me and finally I checked it was like overflowing…not sure of what you all do with SL/RL emails but I do try to keep some separated with the exceptions of offline messages and a couple others as the rest goes to my SL email account I set up more to catch overflow and all the blog posts that I do follow ~ honestly I do try to either like and/or like & comment on those as I do have several favorites that I enjoy readying like Sady’s, Moz just to name a couple.  Most of the bloggers work hard creating scenes, explaining clothes and such that they deserve comments or likes ~ plus there are some that are very awe-inspiring that I love looking at like Kess Crystal who creates some amazing scenes…anyway am setting goals for next year that I will tell you about later…thats about it since RL is grabbing me again and tomorrow I have to get a CRT scan on my face or rather my sinuses as am not looking forward to that one bit…cya soon ~ hugzz ♥♥

Shot at my home using Foxcity GSits Vol2-3 

Dreary Day Tights Black Cable Knit
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
**RE** Luxy Rings – Maitreya Bento
**RE** NOX Alegoria bracelet
:::Sn@tch Larkin Outfit (MAITREYA):::
Cae :: Sienna :: Necklace
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
NO.MATCH_NO.LEVEL. (female / cap )
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring



On the eve before one of the bigger American holidays Thanksgiving, I feel very thankful for so many things ~ the biggest one is am happy here in SL and RL again… it has been a year since I moved to a new place in RL and am truly blessed to be among such caring friends with the added plus of making genuine friends, and started a small dog sitting venture that is keeping me busy…as far as SL yes I will admit that I unpartnered for reasons that I just was not happy and haven’t been for almost a year and a half…having a partner for me was very special as I would have someone to go exploring, go dancing, making couple pics with ~ sadly it just didn’t work out that way and I kept on coasting through debating if I should move on but in a way I was afraid to hurt this person…my RL girlfriend told me that I have to put myself first and start thinking of me instead of always putting myself last ~ now she was not thinking or commenting on Second Life as firstly she is clueless about SL and doesn’t get the attraction, which is fine but her words just resonated with me regarding SL and then I knew it was time to let go, move forward and seek what makes me happy ~ so yes I unpartnered not for any other reason but the fact that I was tired of being unhappy…there is always a little bit of sadness when you unpartner or break up with someone and all I can say is if you are not happy in a relationship you have to make the decision if you want to be happy ~ I did and honestly am thankful I did ♥  My wish is for all my friends that are sharing in this holiday tomorrow may you all have a very blessed and happy Thanksgiving ~ thank you again to all those that take time to read and follow my blog posts as it truly truly makes me so happy to hear someone say “I follow your blog” ♥ till next time take care of YOU♥




Lets talk winter clothes in SL ~ there is some debate that designers should be putting out more clothes for winter as most of us looking out our windows it is winter time where people are wearing jackets, coats and sweaters indoors…for me personally and speaking with bestie Dena and couple other friends they do like to dress seasonally as well as decorate their homes and land also ~ now on the other side of the coin the consensus is that SL is always spring or summer so why wear winter clothing ~ there is no right or wrong answer for this as SL, which has a variety of sims that are winter with skiing, snowboarding and other winter activities that I absolutely love doing as am such a klutz on RL skis is a joke but in SL I can make it down the hill without falling on my azz LOL ♥ I would love to hear comments about this hot topic so please either comment on my blog or send me either an IM or NC inworld ~ my outfit is one from Ever an Angel close out sale that each one is only 50L and Dena is wearing a group gift from Scandalize that the group fee is FREE for the moment plus there is a huge wall of gifts for you to choose one or all ~ Dena and I along with Brutus to scout around for some winter sims just know that soon our most favorite of all winter sims “Christmas at Calas” will be coming soon as I know many of you have been there and love it as it always is one of the number 1 winter destinations ♥ I am so excited to see Ty and Truck’s creation every year as it just has that special magic ~ keep your eyes pealed to my blog for more details ~ thank you again to all my readers that have stayed with me through various transitions I am 99% sure that I have found my niche ♥♥

Dena wearing:
Glam Affair ~ Basic Lights
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
CATWA HEAD Catyav3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Dew
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Scandalize. Coat FUR/Mesh.
Scandalize. Megan. PANTS.
Scandalize. Top.
.:KC:. MONY Short Uggs /
[^.^Ayashi^.^] Nagi hair

Am wearing:
amara beauty ~ Charlotte in Honey
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
Ever An’ Angel – Cozy Days Sweater
Ever An’ Angel – Cozy Days Leggings
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
MINA Hair – Frankie
Slipper – Cadence Rings
Chop Zuey Willow Love

what have I…

Where is

Standing here with a torch in hand wondering what I got myself into again ~ its that time again at Calas where masterminds Tymus Tenk and Truck Meredith unleash their sim of Horrors and this year is no exception ~ if you are a fan or follower of Calas you know the month of October is special because Ty & Truck spend the weeks before creating something special for Halloween ~ its name this year is “Maze” ~ the images below are just a teeny tiny peek at what you will experience but remember you are WARNED so visit at your own risk ~

Who is he oh btw you just might run into other visitors that might not be of this world or they got changed once they entered…think that dude can stop dieting he is all bones♥ Where

YES turn on your sounds so you can hear how close those monsters are to you when you travel on the boat tour ~ eyes wide open and look around surely you do not want to miss a thing and remember to DUCK…

Where is

by now you might be feeling the heat but don’t get too close or you might just get sucked into that vortex ~ am leaving you with these thoughts BE WARNED you might not come back BWAHAAAAAAA …here is your RIDE

Shot at various location in the Maze and huge thanks and kudos to all the hard work Ty Tenk and Truck Meredith have put in at this build ~ if you can spare some lindens please try to make a donation to this they work so hard keeping it free and depending on group members and visitors to help support Calas ~