just wanna…

Just wanna

yes, sometimes I just wanna fly like a bird and have that freedom to soar ~ wouldn’t that be marvelous♥ especially wearing this gorgeous fall outfit “Grey Afternoon” by *B.D.R.* that is now at Sense Event ~ this is something I wore in RL xcept for the sweater being cropped I loved the shirt sweater combination growing up just looked so put together with a nice pair of pants or jeans ♥  comfy looking yet very chic matched with the booties too ~ the creator has given you different choices in buying ~ just the sweater/shirt combination or the total outfit both come with Huds that also include a bonus texture…

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wearing Grey Afternoon Sweater/shirt by *B.D.R.*

I love just the stripes on the arms along with that texture resembling an Oiuji board ~ priced very reasonably I loved the entire outfit that comes with jeans ~ the huds included are for the top you have choices for the sweater along with the shirt ~ very creative and also makes this a keeper in my closet ♥ Rides will be below and walk around as I am seeing a lot of goodies that I want…

“A wise man makes his own decisions,

an ignorant man follows the public opinion.” Grantland Rice

Shot at my home using poses “LongGrass by FoxCity & a pose inside LumiPro that does not credit makers of each pose when used ~ Rides to *B.D.R.*#barberyumyum, Besom, FoxCity, and Sense Event

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
*B.D.R.* Grey Afternoon Booties Maitreya
*B.D.R.* Grey Afternoon Jeans Maitreya Lara
*B.D.R.* Grey Afternoon Sweater+Shirt Maitreya Lara
*Besom~Kami UNRIGGED
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Spectral Eyes- Passion
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears Right
Shape ~ Mine

am I…

Am I

Standing here under this street light wearing Legendaire’s newest outfit “Dayla” I was worried if speaking out regarding bad manners, rudeness, and calling out those that act  so entitled when it comes to free stuff ~ still bothers me how some have so little respect for store owners/designers when they are being gracious in providing gifts.  Is it so wrong for today’s society to speak up and call out those ungrateful ones?  Should we all remain silent not saying a word ~ is that what SL has become a community that conducts themselves in group chats like sharks on a feeding frenzy with the mentality of “you better make sure I get that gift or else” and dare anyone to speak up because they will belittle or humiliate you to make you out like “how dare you”…

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wearing Dayla by Legendaire

Dayla is a very sexy outfit that Legendaire created ~ coming with huds for the skirt, top that will keep this looking fresh ~ what  I noticed about the skirt is the detailing on the top and bottom hem giving it a very finished look ♥  Dayla is now at the Sense Event with some other goodies that Legendaire has created ~ If you have not noticed my gorgeous skin as it is becoming a favorite and it is a group gift from 7 Deadly s[K]ins Mellia in Pineapple ~ all the rides will be below ♥♥ so last question am I in trouble?

“Don’t go around saying the world owes you a living.

The world owes you nothing.

It was here first.”

Mark Twain

Credits and kudos to some very special people ~ to my bestie Dena Teardrop the one that truly puts up with my crankiness and listens to me vent ~ to hubby Sten who keeps me grounded and to all the readers that am learning that follow and read my blog I so thank each of you ♥♥ Shot at Backdrop City using the prop/poses Hooker Streetlamp by [Slutland] ~ Rides to 7 Deadly s[K]ins, Earthstones, Sense Event, Legendaire, Moon Hair, and Sintiklia

7 Deadly s[K]ins Mellia Pineapple *GG
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
Sintiklia Bangs
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
EarthStones Perfect Fit Necklace –
IKON Spectral Eyes- Passion
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Moon. Hair. // Violet
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape ~ Mine

is he…

Is He

Is he checking me out…it is getting little chillier where I live as summer is coming to an end and just had to go to one of my fave places and walk in the ocean before it gets too cold ~ while am standing here wearing La Perla’s Babydoll Charlize I feel something or someone standing behind me…ummm this is lingerie looking around trying to make sure no one is watching it is still early and love walking on the beach so don’t worry am going home soon and change ♥  Make sure you try a demo if you are unsure of fit or how it will look on you ~ this La Perla creation comes also with a nice hud ~ affordable that will make a great addition to your closet ♥  Before I rush home to get on with my day I gotta say make sure you join the Hair Demo group as they will be sending out demos this Saturday ~

Elsha Necklace by Avada

ooops got home and had to just spotlight this gorgeous Elsha necklace by Avada ~ with a hud that lets you change the colors of the pearls and the metal AND you can either layer or wear each one separate, which means you could really jazz this up and wear 2 of each and resize them ~ very creative of the Designer ~ this necklace Elsha is also at Designer Showcase ~ Rides below ♥

“Do stuff. Be clenched, curious. Not waiting for inspiration’s shove or society’s kiss on your forehead. Pay attention. It’s all about paying attention. Attention is vitality. It connects you with others. It makes you eager. Stay eager.” Susan Sontag

Shot at Baja Tides using Image Essentials pose “Touch” ~ Here are the rest of the rides: 7 Deadly s[K]ins, Avada, Designer Showcase, La Perla, and Truth Hair.

7 Deadly s[K]ins Mellia Pineapple gg
Avada Elsha Necklace @Designer Showcase
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst “Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Spectral Eyes- Passion
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
TRUTH / Reyane
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
{LP} -Charlize Babydoll Maitreya



Standing here at Erebos Harbor I look out at the ocean and feel this calm coming over me ~ watching water is known to be a very relaxing and my love of it truly helps. Also helped that it is rather chilly but this gorgeous coat Alice by Legendaire keeps me nice and warm.  Will turn around to truly show this coat off and tell you more about it ♥


This coat “Alice” is fantastic and Legendaire’s creator is giving you 2 choices of plain or patterns with the options of changing top, bottom, and belt ~ the fit on my Maitreya is perfect too ~ boots are included with the coat and come with a hud as well ~ the only thing is you will have to wait a day as this outfit will be at the Sense Event that starts on the 18th just make sure you put this on your shopping list ~ a very smart chic item that will be a staple in my closet ♥

“Just remember the people that say, 

“”your dreams are impossible””

have already quit on theirs” Grant Cardone

Shot at Erebos Harbor part of the Dirty Pretty sim using a dollarbee pose Standing Quietly by [VO.Z] found on Marketplace ~ Rides to Legendaire, Sense Event, Truth Hair, and Giz Seorn ♥ 

7 Deadly s[K]ins Mellia Group Gift
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
Giz Seorn – Paper Rose Necklace – Ruby
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Darkstar
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
TRUTH / Reyane ~ group gift
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears


wearing Susan by Scandalize

Today I witnessed something so unacceptable, so rude that first I want to apologize to two store owners for the horrid behavior of several group members ~ secondly store owners that set up free hunts as thank you should NEVER be humiliated or threatened yet today this took place ~ a short hunt for both stores that went into total chaos with people trying to get into the sim ~ the chatter in both groups was like a shark feeding frenzy ~ “can’t get in“, “trying 2 days now“, “they better extend this hunt“, am getting mad that am wasting my time to do this stoopid hunt” and it gets worse “the only recourse I have, if it is not extended, is to never go back“, and lastly “then they don’t want my business ever again, if that is the case”  OMG this is mostly from one person who was so adamant about sending IM’s to the owner threatening never to come back…All because she could not get into the store to grab those free items ~ how sad and pathetic and yes I did IM the owner to say thank you for the hunt and gifts ~ Both stores Scandalize and Safira are in the same sim so yes it was full and took a lot of patience to get in ~

Neus Skirt and top in Black by Safira

Seriously these are gifts that the store owners have graciously set up as a hunt with no idea they would be overrun with group members ~ yet to send IM’s and notecards to the store owners whining, threatening is so unacceptable and utterly rude that for me am truly surprised the person that sent threats would not be banned ~ who does that – its a free hunt…I am sure this will go on deaf ears to those that should read how their behavior was rude and that is sad…

“Remember there’s no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.” -Scott Adams

Shot at Backdrop City using Women Stands #31 by Image Essentials ~ credits & kudos to Yannika and  NiahRen owners of Scandalize and Safira for their kindness with both hunts ♥

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
*Besom~ Andy
Safira Neus Skirt and top in Black Hunt Prize
Safira – Lightning – Fayna Necklace – GroupGift
-:zk:- Anais Summer Shoes FATPACK
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes- Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Scandalize. Susan. ~ Hunt Prize
Scandalize. Susan.PANTY.
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape ~ Mine



I love puppies – doesn’t matter what breed either as puppies are so adorable…they are cuddly, lovable, and have this amazing puppy breath…Cannot apologize for not being a cat lover as am a pure dog lover through and through…Cats are very strange with being aloof, independent along with some quirks I cannot handle ~ like walking across kitchen counters that drives me insane YUCK…especially they walk in their litter box then up on the counter OMG and unless you are super conscious and disinfect your counters before start prepping food who knows what is on that surface…that is my biggest pet peeve with cats.  In RL I live with a female yellow lab who is the sweetest well behaved dog that gf and her husband treat like a princess…doorbell rings and she has been trained to head for her kennel and stays till she gets the okay ~ rarely barks and if she does it is LOUD hehe ~ so yes I just love love puppies but in SL I do have 2 cats and various different types of dogs ♥  Hubby gave me my first Kitty as a pressie and then he got a really tiny one that we have had both now for 2+years ~ good thing is they are both outside and no jumping on counters lol ~ mine I got fixed so “Tamara” is now a perm pet requiring no food…I am sure that I have mentioned several times about nominating your favorite blogger for a Bloggie Award if you have not done that yet please hurry as today is the last day for nominations ~ if you are unsure of a specific category then just put in N/A as each category has to be filled out before you submit ~ there are so many good bloggers that do need to be recognized so I wish everyone good luck ♥

“Be nice to strangers. Be nice even when it doesn’t matter.” Sam Altman

Shot at my home using prop/pose by Luane’s World called “Enjoy your own life” as with each blog I do credit poses as they are so important even sadly when I use LumiPro the poses will only say “Animations and not give the true pose name or creator, which is why I do my best not to use LumiPro poses so I can give credit to the posemakers ♥

7 Deadly s[K]ins Mellia in Pineapple
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
-:zk:- Anais Summer Shoes
:LW: Bulldog C/M
Cae :: Simplicity – Gems :: Necklace
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes- Fjord
Leggings ~ unknown
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Navy+Copper – Fondue
Tres Blah – Oversized Sweatshirt- Grey
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears Right
Shape ~ Mine

Autumn Retreat…


my bestie Dena Teardrop and I finally got together as RL along with time difference does at a time keeps us apart but when we do we have a blast giggling, laughing, listening and commiserating together…today we jumped in with both feet and again trying our hand at home decorating…Before I go any further I gotta give huge huge kudos to those that do this and make it look FANTASTIC! The decorating and setting the scene takes time and planning since you cannot change your lens like in RL to get those room shots ~ Wanna see some photographers that truly make this look effortless and gorgeous Wendz Tempest or Kess Crystal ~ and course my friend Moz Loordes ~ the cute little house was an FLF special by *Funky*Junk* ~ come inside where we spent time having fun, giggling, and what we didn’t think of was how to shoot this LOL ~ little out of my comfort zone umm let me rephrase that a LOT out of my zone ~ this is truly a learning experience ~ that said let me show you what we came up with…

The right half of room
The Left Half of the Room

From the pics looks like a huge room just again a reminder you truly have to plan when you are setting up a home decor blog pic ~ that is why there are right/left pics cuz honestly I was not thinking or maybe I was and in the back of my brain thought hey why not 2 pics umm sounds good huh lol ~ now you take the pic and yikes you gotta then start listing all the items so you can give credit to each ~ NOW that is a lot of work in itself and my sweet BESTIE Dena took the task to heart and did a PERFECT job, which love her for all she is ~ a true friend that puts up with me and my grumpy grouchy moods…sooo Kess, Wendz or Moz truly has nothing to worry about as Dena & I are truly noobies when it comes to Home Decor blogging hehehe but damn we do have FUN ♥

“Life doesn’t require that we be the best 

only that we try our best” anonymous

Props used ~
*Funky*Junk* Autumn Wall Crates
*Funky*Junk* Autumn Accent Table
*Funky*Junk* Rectangle Autumn Rug-
.:revival:. maison lantern
~LVS~ Rusty Bike Cream Roses
-Pixicat- Bastet.Sphynx
[CIRCA] – “Nature Valley” Pumpkin & Gourd Crate
[NO CONCEPT] Rubin’s side table
22769 – DIY Tic Tac Toe
Abranimations-Mysical Crystal Ball
Apple Fall Plaster Horse-Apple Fall
Apple Fall Fig & Blackberry Cake
Apple Fall Macarons in Box
Apple Fall Crumpled Newspaper
Apple Fall Wooden Trunk
Apple Fall Wingback Chair
-BH- Mesh Freebie Crate
Bruiser Bear-Constantine Linden
Cat Playing -Created Hannah Kozlowski
Cigar & ashtray-Elizabet Skyward/Elizabet Savira
DaD DESIGN “Knitted pouf”
[DDD] Dewdrop Cobweb
*HEXtraordinary* Harvest Lantern
Hideki – Rocking Horse
MudHoney Grace Rocking Chair w/ pillow
PrimPossible 1 Prim Potted Plant
RO – The Doll Maker – Bloody Mary Doll
[sf] mini checkers – rustic
SL15B Crystal Bear
{what next} Starry Pumpkin
{what next} Harvest Pumpkin String
{what next} Harvest Wheat Vase
{what next} Harvest Wall Decor
{what next} I Love Fall Blocks (large)-Winter Thorn