am I…

Am I

Standing here under this street light wearing Legendaire’s newest outfit “Dayla” I was worried if speaking out regarding bad manners, rudeness, and calling out those that act  so entitled when it comes to free stuff ~ still bothers me how some have so little respect for store owners/designers when they are being gracious in providing gifts.  Is it so wrong for today’s society to speak up and call out those ungrateful ones?  Should we all remain silent not saying a word ~ is that what SL has become a community that conducts themselves in group chats like sharks on a feeding frenzy with the mentality of “you better make sure I get that gift or else” and dare anyone to speak up because they will belittle or humiliate you to make you out like “how dare you”…

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wearing Dayla by Legendaire

Dayla is a very sexy outfit that Legendaire created ~ coming with huds for the skirt, top that will keep this looking fresh ~ what  I noticed about the skirt is the detailing on the top and bottom hem giving it a very finished look ♥  Dayla is now at the Sense Event with some other goodies that Legendaire has created ~ If you have not noticed my gorgeous skin as it is becoming a favorite and it is a group gift from 7 Deadly s[K]ins Mellia in Pineapple ~ all the rides will be below ♥♥ so last question am I in trouble?

“Don’t go around saying the world owes you a living.

The world owes you nothing.

It was here first.”

Mark Twain

Credits and kudos to some very special people ~ to my bestie Dena Teardrop the one that truly puts up with my crankiness and listens to me vent ~ to hubby Sten who keeps me grounded and to all the readers that am learning that follow and read my blog I so thank each of you ♥♥ Shot at Backdrop City using the prop/poses Hooker Streetlamp by [Slutland] ~ Rides to 7 Deadly s[K]ins, Earthstones, Sense Event, Legendaire, Moon Hair, and Sintiklia

wearing:
7 Deadly s[K]ins Mellia Pineapple *GG
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
Sintiklia Bangs
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
EarthStones Perfect Fit Necklace –
IKON Spectral Eyes- Passion
LEGENDAIRE DAYLA HEELS
LEGENDAIRE DAYLA SKIRT
LEGENDAIRE DAYLA TOP
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Moon. Hair. // Violet
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape ~ Mine

oh look…

Look

Did you miss me yesterday as I took a 1-day break from blogging to step out in the RL and head into the mountains to help my gf who is a realtor take some pics…the area was so gorgeous with the house sitting on the edge of a private lake community. Very remote so there is no just picking up your cell and ordering carryout ummm nope LOL ~ anyway the day was on the humid hot side that had me sweating but I was just glad gf was pleased with the final pics. oooh my while am standing here by these craggy rocks this bluebird landed on my outstretched hand ~ holding my breath that he doesn’t peck or poop on me hehehe ~ maybe he is just admiring my cute Babydoll outfit “Blush” by 1 Hundred that is at Designer Showcase *giggling* Oh and for those that are concerned with how short this Babydoll is the designer has included matching panties for you…Blush Babydoll comes in 6 different colors and fits my Maitreya perfectly~ a demo will be available if you are unsure ~ Rides to all will be below ~ before I leave wanted to truly say thank you to those that truly take the time to read my blog and to all the designers that have given me the opportunity to show off their gorgeous items ♥♥

“Kindness and politeness are not overrated at all.

They’re underused.” Tommy Lee Jones

Shot at Backdrop City using FoxCity pose/prop “Fairytale” ~ Rides to 1 Hundred, 7 Deadly Skins, Cae, Designer Showcase, and Sintiklia

wearing:
7 Deadly s[K]ins Mellia Pineapple *Sept Group Gift
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst “Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
1 Hundred. Blush Babydoll. Lilac
1 Hundred. Blush Panties. Lilac
Sintiklia Bangs
Sintiklia Hair Kimberly
Cae :: Simplicity – Gems :: Necklace
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes- Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape ~ mine

Classic…

Classic

This stunning gown called “Shannon” by Tori’s Stylez is simply stated a pure classic ~ absolutely think this gown beside being a classic is truly stunning and you will like me want this hanging in your closet ~ you can almost hear that gorgeous sounds of swishing when you walk ~  each gown has 2 versions satin and brocade with all the colors of a pastel rainbow…from the detail of this gorgeous gown I will turn around to show you the back…

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Back view of “Shannon” by Tori’s Stylez

You also get a better look at the brocade as well ~ really nice detailing on this gown as the designer put a lot of thought into creating this gown ♥  You can also see how this fits on my Maitreya body too as always with any size concerns please try a demo on…The only place this gorgeous gown Shannon will be is at Designer Showcase all month ~ Rides below ~ you must at least try this on to just see how truly gorgeous you will look in this♥

“The biggest risk is not taking any risk…. In a world that’s changing really quickly, the only strategy that is guaranteed to fail is not taking risks.” —Mark Zuckerberg

Shot at Backdrop City using one of Image Essentials classic poses “Graceful Elegance” ~ Rides to 7 Deadly s[K]ins, Designer Showcase, “”D!va””, and Tori’s Style

wearing:
7 Deadly s[K]ins Jolyn in Pineapple
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
“”D!va”” Hair “Lisa” (Fantasies)
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes- Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
TS- Pearl Necklace
TS-Pearl Bracelet White 
TS-Shannon-Mint Pastel
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape ~ Mine

shhhh…

Shhhh

Standing in the shadows trying to be discreet and starting to giggle ~ yeah right me be discreet ha ha ha ~ but as I put on this outfit Saraid by [WellMade] and the Mao77 glasses by !HAYSURIZA this just gave me the idea and wondering if this what a detective would wear…probably not but at least I look good ~ course I cannot forget those gorgeous boots by Lindy Modern & Retro Shoes ~ ok let me show you a closer look at the top and glasses ~

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Saraid by [WellMade] Moa77 by !Haysuriza
The top “Saraid” has a 10 texture hud that is included along with the jeans ~ wearing it on my Maitreya body I had no issues with the fit ~ remember to try a demo if you are concerned ~ !Haysuriza always has created glasses with a lot of options on the lenses as you just touch the lens to pull up the menu ~ and you can change the lens color along with various other items ♥  The creator really puts a lot of care and detail into each glasses that you will not be disappointed.

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Lola Boots by Lindy

Absolutely love these boots and the detail is just fantastic, which why I wanted to give you this closeup ~ coming in black or brown you will want these in your closet to wear with jeans, shorts or whatever ~ there is a demo available ♥  All the rides to the stores are below and doors to Designer Showcase is now open ~ so enjoy and go wander around looking at all of Septembers items…

“In the end, 

we only regret the chances we didn’t take”

anonymous

Shot at Backdrop City using poses from the Wall to Wall series by Image Essentials ~ Rides to 7 Deadly s[K]ins*AvaWay*, Backdrop City, Couture Chappeau, Designer Showcase!HAYSURIZA, Image Essentials, Lindy Modern & Retro Shoes, tram, and [WellMade]

wearing:
7 Deadly s[K]ins Monday in apricot
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
!HAYSURIZA_Eyewear_Mao77 for Lady
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
*AvaWay* KEEP TIME Necklaces
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
CC Fedora Sleuth Black-Black
IKON Hope Eyes- Fjord
Lindy Lola Boots Black
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
tram H0327 hair
[WM] Saraid Blouse Maitreya
[WM] Saraid Pants Maitreya
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape ~ mine

singing the blues…

Blues Singer

Now I have to confess am not a singer ~ not in RL or in SL with the exception you can be anything in SL you want just I will save myself the embarrassment of having you hear me sing ♥ Dressed in a vintage gown by {Poeme} called Lavinia that I chose in Scarlet giving myself a 40’s Blues singer look ~  gorgeous gown that does come in other colors like Lapis, Noir, Royal and the Scarlet that am wearing…all of these gorgeous gowns can be seen at the LOVEFEST that is opening later tonight ~ the designer/owner of {Poeme}is also giving a gift that has male/female versions ~ yes close up is below♥

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Sterling Cthulhu Pendant 

I just had to google what Cthulhu was and this is what it says “Cthulhu is a cosmic entity created by writer H. P. Lovecraft and first introduced in the short story “The Call of Cthulhu”, which is perfect for the LOVEFEST event since it is all based on H.P. Lovecraft an author of horror stories…Make sure you take the time to visit this event, from the items, am seeing unique, different and so interesting that you will definitely want to go and check out. Rides to the LOVEFEST and to {Poeme} ~ enjoy ♥

“The world is indeed comic, but the joke is on mankind.”

H. P. Lovecraft

Kudos again to all the creators/designers for the LoveFest ~ thank you ♥ Shot at Backdrop City using props from NotABox stage & GCD Microphone w/poses

wearing:
7 Deadly s[K]ins Texas in Pineapple
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst “Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes – Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
TSRUTH HAIR Sassy 2 – LightBlondes02
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
{Poeme} Lavinia Scarlet Gown MTYA
{Poeme} Sterling Cthulhu Pendant F
Shape ~ Mine

B*tch

B*tch

For the most part, I do not like to whine or b*tch on my blog so today is a rare occasion that I do just that ~ this I see more and more in groups and it truly gets old so instead of biting my tongue and being snarky in a group am using my blog to b*tch about it ~ without mentioning specific groups am trying to be a tad polite in saying this but gawd some people in groups feel so entitled I just wanna scream…group owners work hard at putting notices out to members with the LM’s to events and such ~ giving all the pertinent info they can, yet time after time you hear can someone send me the LM or can someone send me the notice ~ there is even Seraphim my go to for info about events that provide fantastic information with pics as well ~ most the time I just bite my tongue or hint about using Seraphim as polite as I can when I would love to throw out a snarky remark “like do we look like a taxi driver…one more thing is specific groups are just for that a specific store, specific event or even a specific Sim ~ my wish is people would have respect for the group and not take advantage like just for example throwing in Flickr links that were not for that store or group just to get a view on their Flickr ~ for me personally people that do that time after time are just being very disrespectful to the owner of the group ~ I have totally embarrassed myself by accidentally posting a link within a group due to the fact I had too many groups open BUT I apologized right away feeling like a total idiot in the process ~ for me I can see this taking place yet the group am speaking of no one apologizes instead they argue constantly about this, feeling they are entitled, which they are not and instead of being polite when reminded that the group is for pics taken on that specific sim you are made to feel like the bad guy in speaking up ~ you are bullied, shamed to the point its just not worth the energy and that is sad for the owner who created the group specifically for those to share pics taken on that sim not a dumping ground for just any one to post pics ♥ So okay, that went a lot longer than I imagined yet it has been brewing for awhile…that is why this is one of those times you see me with a smoke as I quit in RL about 7 years now ~ guess you could call this smoking by SL Proxy LOL ♥  thank you all if you are still reading ♥  hugzz and credits/rides are below

“That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong.”

William J. H. Boetcker

This was shot at Backdrop Cityty using FOXCITY. K-POP Star backdrop with {{Lune}} Smoking Girl pose #3 that is a Gacha ~ Rides to 7 Deadly s[K]ins, *Avaway*, Collabor88, eBENTO, Fameshed, #Foxy, Mesh Body Addicts, {{ Lune }}, Pink Pearl Designs, and .::Supernatural::.

wearing:
7 Deadly s[K]ins Texas/Pineapple ~ @eBENTO
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
#Foxy – Romee @ Collabor88
*AvaWay* KEEP TIME Necklaces @Fameshed
.::Supernatural::. Drih Belly Piercing @MBA
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes- Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
[PPD] Im Your Biatch Boot Socks
[PPD] Im Your Biatch Overalls
[PPD] Im Your Biatch String Top
[PPD] Im Your Biatch Suede Boots
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
{{ LUNE }} SMOKING GIRL GACHA – CIGARETTE @Main Store
Shape ~ Mine

Wall shadows

Shadows on the Wall

Those of you that blog ever have those days when you are not sure what to title your blog or even once you take the pic it is like ummm now what ~ last night and this morning it was just one of those moments ~ the dress was another find that I never showed off from a past Bound box ~ Bound Box is one of the few remaining subscriptions boxes with a lean towards “kinky”…normally the front of the dress is the major point but with this very sexy dress Chloe by Mossu I must turn around for you ♥♥

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Bum View

Oh yes as you can notice there is no wearing of panties or thong with this as this does show off your gorgeous cheeks ♥  The gorgeous skin am wearing is from 7 Deadly s[K]ins called Scarlett that is available all this month at Designer Showcase ~ let me turn around and give you a better look at ♥

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The skin is Scarlet and there are 2 versions Regular and Sunkissed ~ the sunkissed has just a smidgen of freckles across the nose like you would get out in the sun well least I used to when I was younger ~ I chose my favorite tone pineapple giving myself that just kissed tan without being too dark♥ All the rides to various stores will be below and there will be a link to the catalog page just to see if anything peaks your interest ♥ ENJOY LIFE!

“Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself,

in your way of thinking. “

Marcus Aurelius

Shot at Backdrop City using poses from the On Point Series by FoxCity ~ Rides to 7 Deadly s[K]ins, Bound Box HQ, Backdrop City, Designer Showcase, Mossu, Sintiklia, and the LINK to this months Bound Box Catalog

wearing:
7 Deadly s[K]ins Scarlett Sunkiss/Pineapple ~ @Designer Showcase
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
Essenz – Memphis not shown
Sintiklia Mbali Blond
IKON Hope Eyes- Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Mossu – Chloe.Dress – Past Bound Box
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Shape ~ Mine