I saw a sign earlier today while I was scouting around at Backdrop City that said “most of the stuff people worry about never happen” and I tend to agree as many people spend their lives worrying over trivial things at times never taking chances that would lead to adventures or new experiences ~ worrying makes you older ~ life is too short to worry about little things ~ make a promise to yourself for 2019 that you will try something new ~ take a step out of your comfort zone…

“Tomorrow is a new day; let today go so you can begin tomorrow well and serenely, with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense. Each new day is too dear, with its hopes and invitations, to waste a moment on yesterdays.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

shot at Backdrop City using [BDPoses] Kristine #3


Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Sintiklia Bangs 2
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagement Ring



Even shopaholics love bargains and being this is a huge shopping day “Black Friday we both knew that SL is not immune to taking part in …we got a lot from our go-to list “Seraphim” that listed 90% of the stores that are advertising Black Friday specials ~ sadly I wish the list would have included details about the sales and before I begin this is just IMO regarding the “sales” ~ there were a number of stores that really had some fantastic bargains giving you a true “Black Friday” sale…each store did have its own version of sales, a lot was fatpacks only that am not a huge fan of buying ~ some had removed everything except the fatpacks that gave you no choice to buy any single colors ~ yes I understand stores need to make money it is just that I would have bought several different items of different single colors that might have exceeded the cost of couple fatpacks but my choice was taken away.  Again this was just my opinion regarding the Black Friday sale of just selling fatpacks and nothing else…Dena and I got really some fabulous bargains mostly half off or a lot were even under 75L ~ the outfits that we are wearing did come from Fifty Linden Friday event ~ the sweater dresses came from erratic and my hair is from Wasabi ~ now I just have to unpack, sort and put into folders another chore am not fond of is cleaning my inventory that is for another day ~ enjoy your weekend and will be back soon ♥hugzz

Shot at Backdrop City using [ west end ] pose “See what you’re seeing” ~

Dena wearing 

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
.::Supernatural::. Balian #4 Silver/nose stud
MINA Hair – Lily
CATWA HEAD Catya 3.2
erratic / malin – sweater / pink xmas (maitreya) ~ 50L
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Industrial
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

Am wearing

Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
/Wasabi Pills/ Ginny Windblown Mesh Hair ~ 50L
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
EF: Nimbus Necklace
erratic / malin – sweater / pink xmas ~ 50L
IKON Odyssey Eyes Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Chop Zuey Willow Love – Engagment Ring –



Lets talk winter clothes in SL ~ there is some debate that designers should be putting out more clothes for winter as most of us looking out our windows it is winter time where people are wearing jackets, coats and sweaters indoors…for me personally and speaking with bestie Dena and couple other friends they do like to dress seasonally as well as decorate their homes and land also ~ now on the other side of the coin the consensus is that SL is always spring or summer so why wear winter clothing ~ there is no right or wrong answer for this as SL, which has a variety of sims that are winter with skiing, snowboarding and other winter activities that I absolutely love doing as am such a klutz on RL skis is a joke but in SL I can make it down the hill without falling on my azz LOL ♥ I would love to hear comments about this hot topic so please either comment on my blog or send me either an IM or NC inworld ~ my outfit is one from Ever an Angel close out sale that each one is only 50L and Dena is wearing a group gift from Scandalize that the group fee is FREE for the moment plus there is a huge wall of gifts for you to choose one or all ~ Dena and I along with Brutus to scout around for some winter sims just know that soon our most favorite of all winter sims “Christmas at Calas” will be coming soon as I know many of you have been there and love it as it always is one of the number 1 winter destinations ♥ I am so excited to see Ty and Truck’s creation every year as it just has that special magic ~ keep your eyes pealed to my blog for more details ~ thank you again to all my readers that have stayed with me through various transitions I am 99% sure that I have found my niche ♥♥

Dena wearing:
Glam Affair ~ Basic Lights
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
CATWA HEAD Catyav3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Dew
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Scandalize. Coat FUR/Mesh.
Scandalize. Megan. PANTS.
Scandalize. Top.
.:KC:. MONY Short Uggs /
[^.^Ayashi^.^] Nagi hair

Am wearing:
amara beauty ~ Charlotte in Honey
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
Ever An’ Angel – Cozy Days Sweater
Ever An’ Angel – Cozy Days Leggings
IKON Odyssey Eyes – Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
MINA Hair – Frankie
Slipper – Cadence Rings
Chop Zuey Willow Love



Woah does this dress make me look hawt am really hoping that your answer is YES and seriously this image does not truly do the dress justice as you just cannot see the sparkle effect even the pastie has a touch of sparkle ♥ This dress is an EXCLUSIVE for the Rock Your Rack event that opened today ~ the designer is fairly new and I doubt that will be for long as this gorgeous sparkly dress is any proof ~ truly if you want a statement made then get your glorious set of buns over to this event and grab it ♥  Heart of Glass by VU is stunning and will turn a lot of heads when you slip this one on ~ plus remember this is all for a good cause that I just can’t help repeating ~ this Heart of Glass dress by VU has 50% of the proceeds going to The National Breast Cancer Foundation ♥  also there is a limited dress at her booth as well that is just as gorgeous and sexy…Rides to Rock Your Rack is right HERE that will take you straight to her booth ~ then wander around look at the art for sale, listen to the DJ’s play and peek around for those pink hangers that have some great items for 10L and yes all the hunt items have 100% going to the Charity ♥  Again I truly want to say Jaimee Sandlewood and her team have done an amazing job setting this up in coordination with “Models Giving Back”  am deeply honored to be one of the official bloggers of this event ♥


Shot at Backdrop City using Flirty #5 by Image Essentials ~ Rides to R.Y.R., link to VU, MinaStone’s Works,Stone’s Work Booth


.:bramble:. Morning After Eyeliner @RYR
7 Deadly s[K]ins Dusk in Butter @Black Fair
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
CATWA HEAD Tala v3.2
IKON Odyssey Eyes- Nymph
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
MINA Hair – Frankie @Hair Fair
Stone’s Works Pearl Music Necklace Moonstone@RYR
REIGN,- Mila Heels
VU-Heart of Glass Dress -@RYR Exclusive
VU-Heart of Glass Pastie – Mait.
Shape ~ Mine



It is right around the corner October and 7 Deadly s[K]ins has started creating some gorgeous new skins for various events like the one am wearing is “Dusk” that will be at the Black Fair starting Oct 5 thru the 19th♥  Izara owner/creator or 7 Deadly s[K]ins has also made a special version that you can see below ~


Really love around the eyes that drow look and always I like how the smattering of freckles look as well ♥  She has also created some special Halloween skins ~ one of will be October’s group gift so make sure you are a group member to receive all these perks. It is well worth the group fee ♥  Here is your RIDE to 7 Deadly’s Main Store and while you are there check out the Midnight boards as you do not need a group tag to slap ♥ One last reminder about the Bloggie Awards ~ the cutoff for voting for your favorite blogger is Sept 30 if you would like to see who is nominated please click HERE ~ its not too late to make sure your blogger or someone you know be voted on ~ there is really a great list and wishing each of them good luck ♥ thank you to all of those that did nominate me this year it is really for me a special honor to be among those nominees and I appreciate my readers for your support in reading and sending me such nice comments hugzz♥

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.” Steve Jobs

Just hanging…

Just hanging...

I love when my brain is just stuck and bestie Dena will come up with a suggestion that truly rocks♥ What also rocks is the Rock your Rack event that is opening today for 2 weeks with 70 designers, live singers, fashion shows and more…Why should you because this event is all about Breast Cancer and monies donated help, someone, you might know to get a breast exam that possibly they couldn’t afford, the money helps to inform men and women signs of breast cancer and how to prepare them, the money helps to support someone who might be all alone going through this ~, yes all those donations, portions of the profits from the creators items at the Event go directly to The National Breast Cancer Foundation…See the hangers holding Dena and myself up they are part of the RYR hunt and designers have graciously provided an item that could be a top or a piece of decor ~ what I am wearing is the hunt prize from Sasheba’s Closet that is a Woodstock Duster …a gorgeous item that also comes with a hud of 3 color choices ~ I have seen a portion of the hunt items and for me they are worth way more than the 10L you just need to find the hanger at each booth and most are very easy to spot as they are pink♥  Enjoy and have fun at this event ~ rides will be below…also wanna know more about the RYR event please click HERE


Shot at Backdrop City using Sigma Wire Hanger as the prop and a pose unknown in the Tillie #6 pose stand…Rides to Rock Your Rack, Exile, Hair Fair, pr!tty, and Sasheba’s Closet♥ 

am wearing:
7 Deadly s[K]ins Dusk Special Butter/Browless
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
.:S.C:. Woodstock Duster @ RYR Hunt Prize
.:S.C:. Woodstock Jeans- Janis @RYR
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
Exile:: Trouble @Hair Fair
IKON Hope Eyes- Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Pearl Music Necklace Moonstone Stone’s Works@RYR
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears Right
Shape ~ mine

Dena’s wearing:
Pout Eye make-up
**RE** ReVoX Starly Ears
*JB* Skinny Suedes – Black – Lara
Black Chinablu Heels
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
Finale Couture Demi Sweater – Gold Maitreya
IKON Hope Eyes- Starfall
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
pr!tty – – Kammy @Hair Fair
Shape -Mine

Friends rock…

I am wearing [WitchCraft] Marguerite dress
Dena Teardrop does rock as my best friend ~ especially during my bossy times LOL do not think She is a pushover cuz that is far from it♥ and just finding out that we have been friends for 3 years as I was looking at a pic of us ~ for most of us friends do make a difference in your SL or RL ~ someone you know will be there to listen, to commiserate, to laugh at your idiotic mistakes and to give you a spike of confidence when you might be needing it ~ after putting on [WitchCraft] Marguerite dress that is Limited for this event and 100% will be going to The National Breast Cancer Foundation ~ comes with a hud with 5 different choices of images ♥  Tomorrow Rock Your Rack will be open with a huge list of designers, entertainers and much more ♥  Please try to make it over there as this event is only for 2 weeks ~ The National Breast Cancer Foundation is an organization that helps with the cost of mammograms, educating the facts about breast cancer, and being there as a support system when needed ♥  There is no cure only early detection saves lives and I am so honored to show off items that designers have created just for this event like this sexy dress Marguerite by [WitchCraft]♥♥


Shot at Backdrop City using Girlfriends pose by Frozen ~ Rides to [WitchCraft][KoKoLoReS], KMH{ViSion}, and Frozen 

Dena’s wearing:
Izzie Glittery Lipstick-May PP
Zibska Eyeshadow Dasia February PP
**RE** ReVoX Starly Ears
AnaSTyle – Lorena -not shown
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes – Starfall
KMH Hair Fair 2018 Gift Hair
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
{ViSion} //Annie Dress – Maitreya
Shape- Mine

Am Wearing:
Alma Lippy “Babygirl”
Pout Glitter Bomb EyeShadow
Pud’s Very Subtle Bounce Physics
Celtic Myst”Eternally” Claddagh Platinum Ring
:::NOIR::: MARGOT BOOTS not shown
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
IKON Hope Eyes – Fjord
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
Pearl Music Necklace Moonstone Stone’s Works@RYR
[KoKoLoReS] Hair – Signe @HairFair
[WitchCraft] Marguerite dress V2 Maitreya@ RYR
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears